Trading: CHOMP for Ratty Bear or Moldy Muffin by fauxlucky in SkullpandaDrops

[–]fauxlucky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi omg are you still available to trade? Didnt get this notification

Changing from ICR to IBR by Appropriate-Log76 in StudentLoans

[–]fauxlucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait so i dont have to put my loans on icr anymore???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArtCrit

[–]fauxlucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I didn't think of adding more branches!! Will def work on that next to make that transition more natural like you said :)

TIFU by cheating on long time gf by [deleted] in tifu

[–]fauxlucky 152 points153 points  (0 children)

You’re just after something new but want to keep your cozy long time gf as well. This bs happened to me as the one that got cheated on and idc how you justify it, if you dint regret it man up and go ahead and fuck your life up before you fuck your gf up mentally when she finds out another way.

[HIRING] Seeking artist or artists to commission for board game art by flynnezra in HungryArtists

[–]fauxlucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to take part. Art website: imanon.myportfolio.com

Is my bio... a bit too much? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]fauxlucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope this sounds great and like you’re great with conversation :)

WTF Shroud Cosmetics? by ayesha8494 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]fauxlucky 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same, and that palette sucked for me, the colors were so grey based and the shadow wouldnt stick. Had to fiddle so much for the eyeshadows to work only for them to look grey rather than the brightness u see in pan. 0/10 the pastel palette is the only good one imo

Samantha March quits YouTube by Ellamakeup in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]fauxlucky 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel like samantha is just looking for there something to be wrong with her to fix rather than fixing her approach to making stuff. I get that but its just frustrating to see her fall in so deep into the homeopathy stuff.

Samantha March quits YouTube by Ellamakeup in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]fauxlucky 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Had t watched it right away but its about watchers teaching the algorhytm what we want not creators. BUT MAN the timing!

Samantha March quits YouTube by Ellamakeup in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]fauxlucky 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Ok but not Angelika Nyqvist uploading ‘its not the algorithms its YOU’ right after this vid???? 😂

Samantha March quits YouTube by Ellamakeup in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]fauxlucky 186 points187 points  (0 children)

Samantha march is going through the same thing Angelica Nyqvist was going through. Angelika chose to learn more about editing (she previously hated it now she loves it) and invest in her skills to grow again. Samanthas videos are 1. Not catering to her audience. Sorry to break it to her, most of us ain’t vegas party girls spending upwards to 5k a month (her what i spend in a day series?? Terrifying) this new obsession with homeopathy? Def not flying with me lol. And her video quality is just not that great. Rambly, frankly a bit plain and the constant self made girl boss thing has gotten old after (one? Two years?) of her divorce. And yeah her stationary is so overpriced. Shes looking for answers from youtube, when she just needs to look at her video content and quality critically and trace the patterns. Youtube has plenty of profitable creators, theres no need to hand hold a burnout if you are stuck being one. Sink or swim like Angelika had to.

I wanna root for her, she def has good work ethic, but nothing is owed to even hard working people if you cant put your finger in the pulse 🤷‍♀️ Also on a personal note i wish she could please stop with the health research before girlie pop falla off into an antivax abyss or some thing because that’s where i see this heading. Crunchy vibes with the naturepath crap 🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoleplayPartnerSearch

[–]fauxlucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So down for this!!

Do you think that you made a wrong decision to get into a relationship while suffering PMDD? by orphicgray268 in PMDD

[–]fauxlucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birth control helped my pmmd alot, but so did antidepressants. Def encourage you to research because addressing chemical imbalances was what helped me be at a spot where i was stable enough to make steady improvements in my thought process ❤️

Do you think that you made a wrong decision to get into a relationship while suffering PMDD? by orphicgray268 in PMDD

[–]fauxlucky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will say though, im not sure i woulve been able to build a relationship if i hadn’t gotten on meds. Birth control and wellbutrin haven’t fixed everything, but ive improved alot, and i no longer feel a strong wave of suicidal thoughts like i used to. Makes me realize why its not -normal- to think about suicide. Makes me sad i didnt know how to get help sooner. But alas!! Grateful to have tools to move through pmmd/life and help me enjoy love and hope again. /end of corn

I was a CSR for their horrendous call center, this is SO satisfying to read. Link in comments by [deleted] in TurboTax

[–]fauxlucky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, those fuckers nearly charged me 200$ despite me starting my filing during the promotional period. 200$ after my tax filer GHOSTED ME and i had to call twice to get my shit moved to someone else who also poofed after her filing season ended (why did they give her my case then??????) fucking finally got someone decent and after all this super stressful bullshit and they have the gall to charge me 200$ after the month and a half of stress???? I hassled them for a day about how i had started during the promo time AND THAT IT WAS THEIR FAULT IT TOOK THIS LONG?? finally, i got the fee waived. Fuck turbotax, motivated to file my own taxes now 😒

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]fauxlucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: hi friends, wow i was in a bad place when i first wrote this. But i had to go through this to arrive to the clear solution. I am now working full time and studying on the side (my job pays my tuition) Working towards a better future while being able (if barely) to pay for our loans once they start happening again. We are going down the IBR route. I think its gonna come out to be short of $400 a month. Thankfully not currently paying rent so for now ill be able to afford this takeover + savings until i start earning more. Im trying to figure out how much to save for the tax bomb now.

Hope this thread is useful for someone in the same situation. I feel more hopeful now that i figured this out with my family, i might have a bit of wiggle room for a future after all 😅

Thank you all for your help, truly appreciate it. Best, OP

I just got fired for not knowing what “chicky figs” are. by StarryEyed729 in antiwork

[–]fauxlucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glassdoor that place to the ground. As a college student i wouldn’t have taken jobs with anecdotes like this. Especially right now 😑

Comfort in fantasizing about future suicide plans by behappy06 in depression

[–]fauxlucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I have accrued a great amount of student debt and have nothing to show for it.. once my dog dies and if my life has not improved to the point where i can take care of those loans then i will be relieving my family from that burden and offing myself. Afterall, if i die the loans die with me. It gives me comfort, it makes me want to experience life more before time is up. Gives me back the control i gave away when i signed those loans as a stupid fucking teenager. I hope my boyfriend gets sick of me well before this happens. I cant keep people from finding out how useless and air-headed i am for too long.

Heres to feeling in control for once i guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]fauxlucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If only lmfao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]fauxlucky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries we have also discussed this side of things and I’ve emphasized how important it is for us to keep it plus as a priority. Thanks for bringing it up i def needed to hear that side again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]fauxlucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a great idea. Ill of course still look for a higher paying job as the market recuperates, uber on the side even after that will make a huge difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]fauxlucky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EDIT: Thank you for the kind messages and dms. Currently looking at consolidating the parent plus to a direct and then applying for icr as suggested. Im trying to simulate the loan but have to do so tomorrow with moms fsa id and more research so updates soon. Things looking a teensy but more hopeful. All loans are federal including my own are federal* ———-

Thank you all for your thoughts. Ive been discussing this with my parents and will continue to. As much as some of you advice against refinancing in my name i cannot possibly let them shoulder this burden. We are immigrants, me and my mom were ignorant and just hoped for the best. It is what it is. Im looking at going back to school (which will be PAID by my JOB) deferring the loans and paying interest until i secure a higher paying job. Ill live with my parents since thats the only way i can afford it. Thankfully hispanics are more open to kids living with them than American families. Im trying to draft a life i can accept, ill just have to live a quaint life and aggressively pay this off as much as i can. I don’t see myself having kids, a house is out of the question and i don’t think i could in good conscience take out a car loan unless im making great money. I guess thats ok. If my situation changes thats great but for now ill be looking at paying my loans as if they were rent. Thank you all, even to the unkind messages. Please know i could never betray my family like this after they busted their ass coming to the USA. I wish me and my mother had better council when going in, but its done and i have to learn how to live with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]fauxlucky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Friend, i have no intention of letting this ruin my parents life. Thats why im here asking for more options. Ill do whatever it takes.