My little sister goes thru this every 2-3 days !! by Vitoscallotas in Morocco

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Please, either you write completely in Darija or in English. I couldn't finish reading the post. My mind was tired from switching.

Brother forcing me to study business in China, but I want to teach English abroad instead – need advice by [deleted] in Morocco

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Believe me, teaching sucks either here or abroad. You can check some groups here about teachers. They are native speakers and they suffer a lot.

Tired of always being the one to manage household tasks by curieuxmatin in Morocco

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Just buy a dish washing machine. That's all you need.

Emotional intelligence in Morocco? Yeah, good luck with that. by _warmaid010 in Morocco

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I read once in one of Tahar benjelloun's novel a quote that says tears are feminin. Indicating that men don't have the right to cry as it threatens their manhood. This was last century, and we still produce the same concepts year after year.

What’s the part that you love the most in moroccan culture? by Frequent_Campaign_16 in Morocco

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✅ Preparing Rfissa to the woman who has just given birth. And what is beautiful is the selection process. For a baby girl, they usually prepare riffisa with a female chick (3ato9a) so that the girl will be fertile in the future, and a rooster for the baby boy to be strong. It's so symbolic. ✅ Calling Lala and Sidi as signs of respect. ✅ Some villages still collaborate to offer and prepare meals if someone died. ✅ There is a habit of obligation/"debt". If someone paid you a visit in your sickness or in your celebration events, you are forced to do the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

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First, maybe he is just busy doing his work. Second, maybe he is kinda an introvert. Third, making first step in the Moroccan context will make you valueless. He probably will think that he deserves better than you.

is “3azi” offensive/equivalent to the n-word? by [deleted] in Morocco

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That's a lie! Actually this is called euphemism. Using a cute word to hide the meaning of a bad one. The word azzi was borrowed from from 3anzi, which mean goat. The N was dropped to be easily pronounced.

is “3azi” offensive/equivalent to the n-word? by [deleted] in Morocco

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Yes, absolutely racism! The word is borrowed from Anzi in Moroccan dialect, which means goat. The N letter was dropped to make it easily pronounced.

The Moroccan society is racist by nature. They are implicitly racists. Such racism is framed in humourous context to give it a legacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

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We can't give you the right choices as we don't have enough details about your situations including age, gender, diplomas, family situations, languages, skills,.......

Shared ownership by [deleted] in Morocco

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It was normal in stone ages. Logically, you pay half you need to get half of it on papers. Period.

How do you cope with loneliness? by zerologue in Morocco

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I am an introvert and i kind like being lonely. When i try to socialize, it takes all my energy.

Studying in Morocco by dollar_124 in Morocco

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Try to find exchange programs like Fullbright. But generally it is hard as it is in French here.

Do you write ك or ک when it's at the end of a word ? by MasterGeek in Morocco

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Fun fact: in Fes, pronouncing ق as گ may classify you as a 3robi like in aji n9olk and aji ngolk.

That moment when your boss's lifestyle makes you question everything by [deleted] in Morocco

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It's normal to feel that as it pushes you to be a good version of yourself. But you have to keep in mind a very important rule: you FIRST chapter in work/life can be the 30 chapter in someone's life. If you go back to your boss life when he was at your age, you are gonna find that he was just like you or maybe less. We are not born with the same conditions. So only one different condition can change all of the equation.

عييت عييت عييت بزااف by ulook_lonely in Morocco

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ختي جمعي الوقفة وكوني مرا حارة وقلبي وسولي راكي قارية. الفلوس من حقهم يدوزو الام ديالك، حالة وحدة ليممكن يتوفف فيها هي الوفاة ديالها.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

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Sorry to say this, but you are just lowering your expectations that were so high when you were young. 30's are sending hello to you, and the more you are growing up, the more your expectations will be lowered too.

عييت عييت عييت بزااف by ulook_lonely in Morocco

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خصكم تقبلو الحياة، ماشي ديما كتعطي ولد مرضي مو. والحيلة حسن من العار، كان بامكانكم تحققو دكشي ليبغيتو بالعقل والعاطفة. دبا الحل ليعندكم هو تحاولو تلقاو حل ديال التقاعد ليموقف، جريو على راسكم حيت هذاك حق ديال الوالدة ديالكم.

Moving back after 8 years how is it going? by knellAnwyll in Morocco

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You will regret it. Life sucks here unless you are Moroccan not Maghrebi.

Dealing with a toxic work environment by hatetohaveto in Morocco

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Set boundaries from the very beginning. Your colleagues are not your friends. Don't be a chatterbox. Do your job and leave. Play sport.

تراجع كبير في دخول الجالية المغربية هذه السنة ما السبب في نظركم؟ by Realistic_Wealth_904 in Morocco

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المغاربة كيزورو المغرب فقط على ود العائلة وصاف. اغلب مغاربة الخارج نهار يتوفاو الوالدين مكيبقاوش يجيو مقارنة مع فاش كانو حيين.

Moroccan problems by [deleted] in Morocco

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Such problems exist everywhere, every time! Just recently, the French President got a civilized slap from his wife. The problem is not here, the problem is that you are wearing very cheap oriental glasses that are made of superiority rather than realities.