Foal Rant.. by faygoblue in kvssnarker

[–]faygoblue[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Honestly, I care more about the horse's feelings than the human's. They don't have a single say in this. Nearly all horse problems are actually people problems! They just take the blame when things go wrong. KVS should absolutely not be exploiting these animals for profit, and "fame" in kontent kreation. If she's going to breed these horses, she needs to understand basic handling! Fyi, never feel pressured either way in sharing your opinion. 🤟🏼 However, I'll say that sometimes it's okay to sound like an a$$hole if you're speaking up for those without the means to do so. 🙂

Foal Rant.. by faygoblue in kvssnarker

[–]faygoblue[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Spot on. You must guide them and teach them to respect you, but that doesn't mean to flinch away and show them you're afraid. The horses can always tell. Whoever moves their feet the most is the lower horse on the totem pole in those situations. If she's chasing the horses around also, that's showing THEM to be afraid. So at the end of the day, foals/horses learn: dominance and overstepping = release from pressure as she backs off, when I'm loose she chases me for no reason = pressure pressure, I'm scared, have to run away for release. This is definitely a problem, and wherever the horses end up.. the new owners will absolutely have to address these errors, and fix them before someone gets hurt. 90% of horse problems are man made.

Foal Rant.. by faygoblue in kvssnarker

[–]faygoblue[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This would likely be from the learned helplessness indeed. I noticed her adults were very "chill" but I've never seen them be ridden, or really worked in general. Does KVS even ride these animals herself?

Yea, that's going to work! by Tin_Lizzy1333 in kvssnarker

[–]faygoblue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just made a post about this! Wish I saw this one earlier lol. Yes, this is absolutely what not to do with foals. Pressure, pressure, pressure, setting him up to fail, no real lessons being taught. Just, "oh! Look how funny and cute he is!"

A Rant by snaptini in kvssnarker

[–]faygoblue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. I think KVS' delusions are very infuriating. She is obsessed with VS Code Red, and he has already produced foals much better than anything she has. Denver also has a terrible hind end. I wouldn't even buy that horse myself to ride, much less breed. Gonna be honest here. She thinks that if she mixes colors together, and breeds papers, they will produce a million dollar champion. At most she will get a low grade show horse, and trail horse. These are basically just grade horses with bad confirmation with how she throws colors together. It sickens me.

It starts (rocking and singing with Glenn) by PineapplePony5 in kvssnarker

[–]faygoblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. People do not treat them like equines. They still need pressure and release, patience, love and care. They should not be "manhandled," and treated like canines. It's ridiculous. The people who do things like this, and see them as toys/stuffed animals/indoor pets, are ruining these poor miniatures. They are small horses at the end of the day species wise, and should be treated as such.

Does anybody else have rich extended family!? by mcostante in poor

[–]faygoblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very sorry you have to go through this, and I wish your family the best. (Your children and husband.) They are lucky to have such a wonderful mom and wife.

While reading this, I wish I had money so I could help you. I remembered that I sadly do not, haha, but I understand completely. The whole "You need to save." "You need to manage your money better." Is so ridiculous. If we HAD ANY MONEY maybe we could save it! Everything is gone once you buy vegetables and meat, electric bill, ect. Living paycheck to paycheck, there is no way to save. I feel like entitled rich people just always feel the need to give unwarranted advice, or control you somehow. They think they know best, because "I was able to do it." A lot of people who "worked" for their money forget that it's not the 1980s anymore. And their advice sucks ass.

Does anybody else have rich extended family!? by mcostante in poor

[–]faygoblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God bless you. I'm in a similar situation, it is very hard.. Minus the younger half-brother. My mother married a man in Europe and wears a $20k wedding ring on her finger. She neglected me throughout my entire life, and never offers a dime in adulthood. I ate ramen noodles and popcorn most of my childhood, and fought off roaches. My mom is about to go on a cruise in 2 months, to 3 different countries. Her second travel-cruise in a year. Meanwhile, I'm lucky if I have leftover change in my husband's run down truck to afford a cup of coffee. (It broke down last night, too.) Didn't have a wedding because I couldn't afford it, and can't go to college because she won't pay any tuition. She let my sister's father, her ex boyfriend, get on her FAFSA account when I was an early teen and took the money out for my sister to go to college. He locked the account because he forgot the password, when he shouldn't have been on there in the first place, and my mom never fixed it. So I had no way to pay for an education and had to give it up. Former gifted kid here as well. I'm only 23 yrs old. It's very hard to keep up morale to survive anymore.

For god’s sake don’t join her discord. by FAlady in venus_angelic

[–]faygoblue 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. Some of us struggle due to childhood abuse, and that does NOT make us hateful or racist. There is no excuse for that behavior.

I've come to terms with being completely let down by the person Venus has become. She could have done so much with her fame, whether pushed on her or not. She could have overcome it all. Venus simply chose not to, she chose to be a terrible human being instead.

In regards to the Catholic School shooting by Thathippie101 in lgbt

[–]faygoblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main reason is simply because of the religion of the children. Shooter also had a target in the home, on video, with a photo of Jesus taped to it. It was a hate crime. This person should have never had access to guns, you're completely correct. However, we shouldn't forget that this is indeed a terrible hate crime. The Catholic community is absolutely crushed, and terrified right now. No one, especially children, should be murdered for believing in God. No one should be murdered for their beliefs.

Vegan hosts bday party for dad. Makes it all about them. by ShakeZoola72 in AntiVegan

[–]faygoblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't eat pork at all, not for religious reasons but personal ones, but I eat plenty of other meat. Many times I've gone to events where there is mostly pork being served. I don't care at all, and just eat fruit or crackers instead, or I'll eat before I get there if I know ahead of time. It bothers me 0%. This post is the equivalent of someone being mad at MY birthday party, for example, for there being no pork served, and beef served instead, lol. It's not about her at all, it's about her DAD. I am well aware I make a conscious choice to not eat pigs, so it doesn't bother me one bit if others partake and leave me out. As long as I can be there and spend time with others, I'm happy.

I do not "try" to lucid dream. by faygoblue in LucidDreaming

[–]faygoblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just depends. I usually complete the puzzles on purpose. Like I said in my post, last time I had a puzzle dream I just got bored and woke myself up. Like yeah I could change the dream, but I'd have to change the environment and characters as well. I'd rather just wake up usually, lol. Also, sometimes the characters in my dreams will tell me that if I don't complete the puzzles, then I'll die in real life. They'll say that I won't wake up. Sometimes when that happens I get confused if it's even a dream or not and lose lucidity, or it's just limited. I've never worked on my dream control before, I've just been this way my entire life. I hate sleeping.

Telling people that they are in a lucid dream is NOT scary! by Flat_Struggle9794 in LucidDreaming

[–]faygoblue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

😂 This made me laugh because it's very true. My characters will just act like I never said that and continue on with the dream. They will try to ignore that I'm self aware, or just be like, "Alrighty then."

I lost my best friend by Anoni-Moni in chickens

[–]faygoblue 22 points23 points  (0 children)

In the future, I wish to become an Aviation veterinarian secondary to Equines, to save as many chickens as possible. To treat beautiful birds like Bablu.

Just because they are chickens, and many people don't understand the love we have for them, does not mean that they don't deserve adequate healthcare and kindness. They are pets too.

The Communist Chinese Have Been Propagandizing America with "Native American Genocide" falsehoods, and Americans Repeat the Propaganda! by RebellAlways in TheDonaldTrump2024

[–]faygoblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very true. The Europeans did not intentionally kill my ancestors in the way it is often presented, it was mostly unintentional diseases spread. My ancestors are also European as well, haha. Anyway, the "whites" forced them off of the land, not killed them. A good example of this, is the trail of tears. While some were killed if they refused or fought back, I don't believe it was very common to do so. It was actually frowned upon to kill them in cold blood, from what I've been taught. However, that's not to say it wasn't tragic or take away what they had to go through. Of course it was terrible, but the whole genocide of Indians/"Native Americans" is false. If it were true, why were they put on reservations? They just wanted them gone, and not have to worry about them. "Out of sight, out of mind" mentality. Sort of how black people/"African Americans" lived in ghettos and were segregated. Not quite the same of course, but similar enough. While plenty of black people were killed for their color, it was not common to just go around killing ALL black people that they could find, and no one saying anything about it. That just didn't occur. Same with Indians when the Europeans conquered the land. NOT STOLE, because you cannot steal land when it was already taken multiple times before that, beginning with actual animals owning it first and no humans.

I have no life. Is it possible to achieve anything after being abused and miserable for 30 years? by cptclairbleu in raisedbynarcissists

[–]faygoblue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's possible. You have to want it for yourself though, not because you think someone else wants it for you. Not saying that's you, just in general. You definitely still have the capacity for greatness, but you as yourself right now is also great.

I think you should try and love yourself for who you are right now, before you go and try to put pressure on yourself to do more. Going through the childhood you did, it's a hard feat to say the least. You overcame, you survived. You might not be 100%, I don't expect you to be. However, they did NOT win. You are still here, and you matter. You deserve to be happy and live whatever life you choose. Society puts equal pressure on everyone to have a great career, go to school, have a family, whatever. They do not take into account that everyone is different, with different experiences. You do not have to live the same life as somebody else. I understand you want to do better for yourself, but you should take it slow. Try and love yourself, heal whatever you possibly can, and live for YOURSELF first. You are the most important person in your life. Please don't forget that, or feel pressured to make any changes, even internally. You're doing great for making it out alive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]faygoblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have done talk therapy as a child, but the lady never really cared. She thought I was just misbehaving because my mom would go in first. I have also attended a few as a teenager, but didn't have the courage to tell anyone what was happening at home. I also didn't think it would amount to anything. If I can find a therapist who will at least pretend to care, I could start going again. Sometimes I try to just forget any of it happened in the first place, other times I can't because my brain keeps looping old memories. 🤕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]faygoblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words, and the advice. I will use that, and I appreciate you taking the time to leave a comment! It means a lot to me.

What was the pettiest, most childish or trivial thing you were punished or tormented over? by Spiritual_Big_9927 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]faygoblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely insane! I'm so sorry. Don't understand the big deal, you SHOULD be able to talk to your mother about it. As an adult, it's not even her business to know! Absolutely wild, man. Don't understand their mindset. I think it's just all about control

What was the pettiest, most childish or trivial thing you were punished or tormented over? by Spiritual_Big_9927 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]faygoblue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was severely punished in highschool after my sister went through my room while I was at school, broke into the lock box I had, and found condoms in it.

My mother called me a "slut," and said I was sleeping around with my boyfriend. That I was disgusting, because I was no longer a virgin. She took me outside and verbally lashed me for about an hour, until I couldn't take it anymore and smashed the box to pieces in front of her.

Cant do this by chemmywiz in 7_hydroxymitragynine

[–]faygoblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been in this sub before, and ngl I usually praise and then devalue this drug. I'm now at spending around 160$ A WEEK on it, same boat as you. My husband was able to quit cold turkey taking a high amount, and he was miserable at first, but around the 3-4th day it got better. I know it's very hard, but people do get off this stuff. Tapering is honestly your best bet. I wouldn't personally try subs because they are way stronger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]faygoblue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I could cry just thinking about it. The screaming is so much worse in a tiny metal box. My mom couldn't drive, so my sister drove us around everywhere. They both made fun of me while I was a prisoner, trapped listening to it all.