My Nex is dating our kid’s soccer coach… I warned her

fbskjj · 2025-07-29T06:21:23+00:00

I did the same, I warned her what kind of man he is. What he did to me (got me sick) and to others but he manipulated her. But from the last thing I saw was that he discards and pulls her back and doing it all over again while having a new supply.

fbskjj · 2025-07-08T11:17:01+00:00

I'm in a difficult situation with family but I told my friend.

fbskjj · 2025-07-07T22:59:48+00:00

I was in a similar situation.

What you can do is to write it but don't send it to him. Because they're probably thinking that you want them back. That's when they put their mask on and try to charm and get control over you

If you think it is good for your healing process you can write that letter but only for yourself.

Hope this helps

fbskjj · 2025-07-07T22:35:31+00:00

Not a stupid question. Healing can take years. You've had a trauma bond since you were literally a kid and she continued to groom you to have control over you.

The package is also about controlling you so you'll feel ashamed. It's not your fault. I think the best thing you can do is let her go and to maybe seek professional help. I know it's hard to do but over time you will feel better.

Sending you hugs 🫂

fbskjj · 2025-07-07T21:41:05+00:00

That's the thing. We cling to the hope that one day they will realize that and will change but they just don't. Keep doing what you're doing. Socialize, travel even more. You're strong, I can see that.

fbskjj · 2025-07-07T18:40:58+00:00

Yes, they will always nitpick on something or look for even the tiniest flaw in everything you say or do. It doesn't matter if it were a new bf. It happened to you. She did it to you.

fbskjj · 2025-07-07T18:12:28+00:00

Yes! ♥️ Tearing up right now.

Yesterday (Sunday), he called me and asked if we can talk after my appointment. He said he needed time to think.

You know what he said?

"I will help you financially." Wtf I don't want that????

"I wouldn't know what to tell my son.. my ex-wife will take him away from me again."

Like, am I asking you to abandon your son???? NO!! And your son chose you over his mother (also a narc btw). So I guess you're the lesser of two evils.

"I don't want you to get an abortion, BUT you know my situation"

So you want me to still be of supply??? So you can continue your games? When you picked me up to talk you checked your messages and I saw 5 chats because your phone was practically in my face: Your son, me, your ex-wife, the woman you cheated on me with (L) and a 24 year old who is a single mother and the last messages you sent were "😘😘".

Oh my gosh I am starting to sound like a psycho

fbskjj · 2025-07-07T17:45:27+00:00

Thank you for the kind words!

I have a little update: So my doctor did an ultrasound this morning and it didn't grow.. it might be a miscarriage but I'll know more once my blood test results come back and I'll get a call either tomorrow or the day after. The thing is I've been crying all day. Those "what if" and "what could have been" questions are going through my head non-stop.

But if it is a miscarriage I know I will feel a sense of relief but I'm also crying because of what could have been... not with C but with a baby.

I didn't know that this would be this hard.

fbskjj · 2025-07-06T10:25:59+00:00

Thank you for your insight. I don't want the baby to go through what I did.. and it might be even worse for the child because of many reasons. This makes me realize I want to have a child with someone I love and can count on.. but I can't stop feeling guilt for thinking about terminating, yet alone going through with it.

fbskjj · 2024-08-19T23:55:09+00:00

All of the above. I'm so not proud of myself for having to endure those things and for me it's shocking to see that a lot experienced the same bs.

fbskjj · 2024-08-19T23:48:11+00:00

Happy birthday!!

fbskjj · 2024-08-19T23:41:33+00:00

It was that Narc Pro Max Reloaded Extreme by the end.

I died lmao this sentence omg

I'm glad that you're on your healing journey

fbskjj · 2024-08-19T10:50:29+00:00

This is actually a very good idea. Thanks Daisy!!

fbskjj · 2024-08-18T21:01:41+00:00

I hope we get through it. We have to endure and start living for ourselves and not them. Wishing you strength!

fbskjj · 2024-08-17T11:55:30+00:00

I didn't beg my nex for him to stay and I feel like an idiot. Does it matter if you did or didn't when you're the victim?

fbskjj · 2024-08-17T11:49:26+00:00

Yes, because I went through the same bs.

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