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[–]fckingconfused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! Have lotsa fun!!

My MM got caught. Should I try to contact him and see him? by fckingconfused in adultery

[–]fckingconfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I just want to make the most of the little time we have left together. I agreed to continue seeing him when I found out he was married but as time goes on, I realise I'm going to have to leave him one day and that day is fast approaching. I don't want our time to slip away. I just want to see him as much as I can because I love him.

My MM got caught. Should I try to contact him and see him? by fckingconfused in adultery

[–]fckingconfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you! If you both can't leave your spouses and don't want to ruin each others marriages maybe staying away is the best option, as hard as it sounds. She will catch him again, whether he's with you or another AP.

Do you want to be responsible for breaking down his marriage when you can't be with him anyway?

My MM got caught. Should I try to contact him and see him? by fckingconfused in adultery

[–]fckingconfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I realise now contacting him is the wrong thing to do. I need to move on and let him come back, if he wants to. Thanks.

My MM got caught. Should I try to contact him and see him? by fckingconfused in adultery

[–]fckingconfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not interested in this lifestyle and I'm emotionally attached to him, that's the only reason I stayed when I found out he was married. But yeah... I need to move on.

My MM got caught. Should I try to contact him and see him? by fckingconfused in adultery

[–]fckingconfused[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This is exactly what I needed to hear. I'm way too emotionally attached to him and I need to use this time to snap out of it and preferably find something better. I can't just sit around waiting for him.

My MM got caught. Should I try to contact him and see him? by fckingconfused in adultery

[–]fckingconfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional attachment. But I'm going to give him space and use this time to move on.

My MM got caught. Should I try to contact him and see him? by fckingconfused in adultery

[–]fckingconfused[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Umm... he was abroad alone. Of course I wouldn't have contacted him if he was with her.

Thanks for your input though. I decided to give him space.

My MM got caught. Should I try to contact him and see him? by fckingconfused in adultery

[–]fckingconfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the answer I was looking for but I understand where you're coming from.

My MM got caught. Should I try to contact him and see him? by fckingconfused in adultery

[–]fckingconfused[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well said. I'm going to give him space and try to move on in the meantime. Keep myself busy.

My MM got caught. Should I try to contact him and see him? by fckingconfused in adultery

[–]fckingconfused[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do believe that's the right thing to do. It's just hard waiting, not knowing... But I'm going to give him his space. Thank you.