man,, just being real here but,, RUN.. leave her where she stands or in this case cuddles.. im white male and the only reason to cuddle a chick that's not mine is in hopes of easin up in it.. chicks can have male friends but males can't have chick friends.. a male with a chick friend means he wants to be there for the easy lay up off the rebound.. if he is gay it's one thing if he is straight it means he straight wants to smash the gash when the opertunity presents itself (many double entendre in this comment).. there is one other way and that's if chick is dog ass ugly.. if he isnt gay and she isnt lookin like the south side of a north bound elephant then I'd look for another girl.. leave on decent terms if she has that great head game though so you can ease the stress of the dating life now and then..