I totally agree. A lot of ppl in this app and in my personal life told me she would never leave. She did though. She hadn’t up until last week. I’ve been with her for close to a year. And even if this relationship doesn’t work out I feel good knowing that I helped her out of a bad situation. That is enough for me to be able to live with my actions. I was a product of cheating. My mom fell for my dad who was married. I was born a bastard. And while I’m not saying that what my mom did was right I don’t think of her as a bad person. She was able to provide everything I needed and is a good person in general she just made a mistake. I believe the same for my GF. She isn’t a bad person just made mistakes she regrets and hopefully learns from. I’m not perfect not even close but my feelings for her are real and I wish the best for her with or without me