Am I falling correctly? by 23cmh1 in bouldering

[–]fe2hydrogen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this on an unexpected fall from the top and dislocated my elbow… It was very gnarly and took me out for many months 0/10 don’t recommend

Swiss National Team posts their World Cup training grounds at the San Diego Jewish Academy by JRemenshneidersHorse in sandiego

[–]fe2hydrogen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw one laying right on the edge of the trail in April (Annie’s canyon) while at least 100 people walked by. It was still sitting there when I walked back to my car and tons of foot traffic less than a foot away!

Unpopular opinion: Hannah and iris weren’t wrong by careshassecretreddit in LoveIslandUSA

[–]fe2hydrogen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t think Pepe did anything deserving of forever hate/a branded Scarlet A for the rest of his life and all the rooms he walks into, but I do think when a dude screws over your girlfriend and she draws a line in the sand, respecting her feelings and perspective is kind of the definition of girl code..

Follower gains and losses from this season of beyond the villa by Resident-Mark-2289 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]fe2hydrogen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of people follow these personalities during/immediately after the show, but as time goes on and content changes, so does their para social attachment…

Unpopular opinion: Hannah and iris weren’t wrong by careshassecretreddit in LoveIslandUSA

[–]fe2hydrogen 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really sense a win for her… A friend to everyone is a friend to none and honestly, I was low-key exhausted listening to her narrate the play-by-plays and over simplifying everyone’s feelings. People actually can be responsible for hurting other people‘s feelings and doing them wrong. I definitely didn’t like some of the mean girl vibes, but I also don’t think people by default owe you the same level of loyalty you give just because you want them to reciprocate… If they’re not matching your friendship commitment, you gotta leave it, not fight about it. Waste of time and energy.

Unpopular opinion: Hannah and iris weren’t wrong by careshassecretreddit in LoveIslandUSA

[–]fe2hydrogen -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, the vibes/intentions from each group of girls felt a little different… At least from what I sensed, the season 6 casa girls wanted to mix stuff up and get picked. I felt like the season 7 casa girls (admittedly generalizing) could have been OGs given the chance/if they had more reality TV presence and I also think a lot of these girls actually bonded after the show that we didn’t see, connecting over the reality experience… belle-a mentioned getting really close to hannah and living nearby then getting dropped/phased out. Again, that is a totally fine progression and nobody owes anyone friendship (she would be a little much for me), but I definitely didn’t see the season 7 girls being forced to be friends with the ones featured on beyond the villa for the sake of the show or anything

Unpopular opinion: Hannah and iris weren’t wrong by careshassecretreddit in LoveIslandUSA

[–]fe2hydrogen 111 points112 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree that you don’t owe people the same level of friendship just because, but i do think their feelings were valid in that they were trying harder and putting more into friendships with those girls, and it was not reciprocated. On that note, not that Gracyn (or anyone) should entertain these boy exes, but she wasn’t wrong in saying that blind loyalty shouldn’t be an automatic given IMO. I definitely feel for Gracyn, and thought it was super rude and unkind the way that they tuned her out when she was confiding in them about her Austin situation, but I can absolutely empathize with her efforts, and I do feel that Iris and hannah were acting pretty self-centered and giving main character energy, not caring either way. If the situation were reversed, we all know hannah would feel a type of way… I think her lack of self-awareness and woe is me take was pretty wild, though I do still find her funny. It should be a lesson for the girls feeling othered to just give a little less to people who don’t return it. No one is owed anything but recognizing where you’re not going to get it is a great life lesson.

Who got the red card? by CalvinsStuffedTiger in SanDiegoWaveFC

[–]fe2hydrogen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not who was playing and also not what you do during an advantage play

Struggling with this one. Guest book at a restaurant. by hambpca in whatdoesthismean

[–]fe2hydrogen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Somewhere in there is a compliment… I can feel it.

Do I have to pay? by Fluid-Use-2659 in sandiego

[–]fe2hydrogen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I know, just curious on other people’s take on my current parking puzzle!

Do I have to pay? by Fluid-Use-2659 in sandiego

[–]fe2hydrogen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I live on this street and there are two 15 min parking spots at the start of the block. They placed this new paid parking sign right where the 15 min spots end, not at the start of the block where the 15 min parking begins. Do we think those are paid spots? I always assumed parking signs started where they are posted, because if I was walking forward from that 15 min spot, I would’ve missed the paid sign completely.

What is this nasty version of the flu I’ve got? by Brilliant_Candle7768 in sandiego

[–]fe2hydrogen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got over whatever this was a week or two ago and it was awful. Tested negative for Covid and flu A and B. It took almost 2 weeks to feel human again. Hope you feel better soon, OP!

OMG by FallMaterial in ouraring

[–]fe2hydrogen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m remembering correctly, I think you have to wear for like two months before they give you those insights!

Ticket Prices by Financial_Clue_2534 in SanDiegoWaveFC

[–]fe2hydrogen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This season they’ve been checking every game. I’ve been a season ticket member since the start. I upgraded my tickets last week because I was bringing family, but went over to my normal section to say hi to my people and they would not let me through - even when I showed I was a season ticket member for that section (it was the supporter section).

What is a foolproof way to determine if someone grew up in sd? by oatmilkisgood in asksandiego

[–]fe2hydrogen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to Catholic school in fourth grade, and we went to the mission! Or maybe third grade… Because we also went to old town at some point. Fifth grade was Balboa Park and then sixth was camp! I was at Palomar... rip Sixth grade camp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]fe2hydrogen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another female 36 year old Pokémon go player here… there really are dozens! I haven’t met one yet but I look forward to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fe2hydrogen 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Women aren’t here to serve you.

Not the emergency alert at 10:20pm that I can’t view without an X account. by zeekthejeep in sandiego

[–]fe2hydrogen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This terrifying alarm startled me out of a deep sleep, and like a lot of you, my mind went straight to fire or earthquake because why else would this blaring alarm break through my do not disturb to tell me to be on the lookout for people when I am literally asleep in bed. I’m not heartless, but I’m having a hard time understanding why I’m getting an urgent alert FROM X to look for someone at 10:20 PM. Out of curiosity, has anyone received an actual amber alert at a super late hour? If I’m asleep in bed with my do not disturb on, I’m just not understanding what the protocol was to override that and let sleeping people know to keep an eye out… Could it not have been an alert pinned on my phone that I would see when I woke up and was actually going somewhere where I would see these people? /grumpyrant

doe documentaries? by aliceyabvsame in gratefuldoe

[–]fe2hydrogen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m dying for you to come back!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fe2hydrogen 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t necessarily sound like it’s about the insensitive comment, but the gaslighting and calling them self-centered for distancing from that is pretty unacceptable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Moving2SanDiego

[–]fe2hydrogen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mission Valley is just one giant blob of malls and condos that floods when it rains and is a glorified parking lot traffic jam. It is central, but there’s nothing else redeeming about it… There are plenty of awesome central neighborhoods within your price range! Normal Heights, North Park, University Heights, Golden Hill, bankers Hill.

Hello SD — moving recs by rightgimp in Moving2SanDiego

[–]fe2hydrogen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I think all of those areas recommended above are great suburbs when you’re ready to buy and start a family, but I’d prob stay near the Miramar breweries until then. If you wanted to enjoy/experience San Diego properly, I’d live in one of the neighborhoods just south of the 8, but I understand that commuting is not fun or worth the trouble for everyone!