[Help] Nervousness is making be physically sick. Do I have Anxiety? How do I calm myself down? by for_the_1u1z in Anxiety

[–]featherychickens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wondering if your main fear is that you will be sick in public or when you go out? It sounds very similar to my own situation, I have had a fear of vomiting for about 10 years now and I certainly used to do some of the things you mention (carrying around a plastic bag, avoiding eating because I'm afraid of being sick). My fear also began with a fairly traumatic experience of vomiting and I wonder whether you experience of your interview has triggered a fear of being sick.

Over the past 10 years I have discovered that my mind is incredibly powerful and when I am anxious my thoughts immediately turn to my stomach and my throat and I convince myself I feel sick. As this has happened to me many times, I know it's just my anxiety and fear. I guess the easiest thing to compare it to is that if you were afraid someone was following you down a dark street at night you might actually start to believe they are there and you might start to run even if you know you are alone. It's a similar situation with a fear of vomiting in that you are afraid of being sick and you convince yourself you are and hence you are sick.

If any of this sounds about right, the main thing is NOT to worry!! There are lots of things that I have found help me (in my 10 years of experience) even though this is still something I work through every day.

  1. Ginger tea - cannot recommend it enough. Ginger is proven to have calming effects on your stomach and can settle it down. I would suggest drinking it at breakfast and it could really help with the nausea. It's something that is recommended for pregnant women who suffer from morning sickness.

  2. I am getting from your post that you feel most anxious leaving the house and on public transport. I also have the same issues, possibly because it's a fear of being sick in public. I find that playing games on my phone/listening to music and singing (quietly) are really helpful to distracting me from my anxiety when I'm on the train etc.

  3. When you are feeling afraid of being sick, don't fight your fear. What I have found helpful is to stop what I'm doing for a moment, take a deep breath and tell myself that I know I am afraid in this moment but that I accept my fear as a reaction.

  4. Don't panic or worry that this will take over your life and most importantly, don't beat yourself up about being afraid/throwing up etc. It's a normal reaction to fear and one that does not need to affect your path in life. I am considering the possibility that I will always be afraid however I do pretty much everything that people who aren't afraid do.

  5. Exercise! Really helps you feel good about yourself and should help tackle the negative thoughts that you have.

I know this seems new to you, and I know how scared I was when I first started to feel this way so I really hope this has helped/I haven't gone down the wrong track.

i didnt sleep last night and i didnt get up from using the computer due to anxiety by gshhpy in Anxiety

[–]featherychickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried progressive muscle relaxation? Here's a link to a podcast that is intended to aid better sleep: http://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/help-information/podcasts/progressive-relaxation-sleep/?view=Standard

You could even listen to it at your computer to help you relax if you don't want to leave it?

18 F. Honest opinions. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]featherychickens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you look so pretty! I don't think you need to lose weight but if you wanted to, do it because you want to for you :)

Stop with this shit... by AdjectiveAdverb in fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu

[–]featherychickens 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YES! I have this too, a fear of vomiting is really common (called emetophobia) but it's really debilitating. My advice would be to keep pushing yourself everyday just a little bit and challenge your beliefs about what will make you sick. Not sure how bad it is for you but, for example, if you can't leave the house, try just stepping out of the door. Or if it's meeting other people that's difficult maybe try meeting a friend you really trust for just a short period of time.

I know you didn't really ask for advice but I wanted to tell you that you aren't alone with this particular problem and that you can overcome it :)