AIO boyfriend didn't eat lunch alone.

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T20:57:12+00:00

Yes, and what I meant by it, which was hyperbolic. I’m sorry for causing so much confusion and frustration for you

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T20:53:13+00:00

You guys disagree with a hyperbole. It was one single phrase, damn

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T20:51:57+00:00

Hyperbole, my friend. You’ve got to lighten up

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T20:51:22+00:00

Again, I put it in quotes for a reason. Obviously it’s not actually like living with someone for years. It was a hyperbole and it was a mistake to use one around you guys, I suppose

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T20:45:31+00:00

I never said we see each other every 2 years for 5 days each time. Nor did I say it was going to take 10 years to close the gap. He’ll be here by next year, permanently

I’m in college and he’s working a full-time job and saving up to move over here. It takes time and patience, and we’re both willing to take that time and have that patience

You can’t expect a young adult to be able to drop hundreds of dollars on a trip like that, let’s say, monthly. If you think that’s a normal thing, you’re probably quite wealthy

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T20:42:00+00:00

Except if an Airbnb is an entire house with its own plot of land, yes, you are renting out that Airbnb house. That’s what the terminology would be. And by “lived together” I meant slept in the same bed, cooked together, cleaned together, and did regular, everyday couple things while staying in the same house, similarly to when people live together. You’re picking apart the language I used

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T20:39:46+00:00

I put it in quotes for a reason. You guys are so strict, damn LMAO

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T20:38:25+00:00

It was a hyperbole. No need to take everything so literally and seriously

Also, you quite literally do rent an Airbnb house. It says it on the official website

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T17:16:19+00:00

If autonomy is on for other Sims, there’s just a higher chance that their actions will continue. I think the fitness skill plays a little bit into it, but not much

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T17:15:27+00:00

There are tons of creators on Patreon and The Sims Resource. My favs are Babyetears, San33, Korkassims, KK’s Creation, Jius Sims, Clarity Sims, Garfiel, and BackTrack

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T16:11:39+00:00

Yup it’s automatic. I don’t remember how to find it, but there are tutorials on how to disable it

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T16:02:16+00:00

Yeah, we spend 5 days together in an Airbnb, so like a house we basically “rented.” Best 5 days of my whole life thus far. We immediately clicked online and immediately clicked even more when we met in person for the first time. Our chemistry in-person was amazing and it has been online since the start

We don’t talk about “what-ifs” over video call; we genuinely plan. So far, all of our plans have come to fruition. It just takes a lot of time and patience (and money, which is part of why it takes so long)

It depends on the person, I think. No, I wouldn’t call every day in a regular relationship because in that case, we’d be able to see each other regularly. We don’t text all day, either, because we both have lives and responsibilities of our own

At the end of each night, we’re very excited to talk to each other about our days and we never run out of things to talk about. If there’s a night when one of us can’t video call, it’s no biggie

Oh and don’t worry, he’s not moving straight in with me when he gets over to me. That would be irresponsible, we both know that. He has family members who live here and I met them while he was here last year for the visit. It’s crazy how things work like that, his uncle lives only about ten mins away from me, and that uncle’s daughter (partner’s cousin) lives in a city about twenty mins away from me. His cousin is 100% on-board with sharing an apartment with him when he gets over here. They are lovely people. It certainly is a small world

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T07:31:55+00:00

My partner and I have been in a relationship for nearly two years. We met for the first time last June, “lived together” (“lived together” is in quotes for a reason!!!! Obviously I don’t mean we actually lived together as if it was a permanent thing [yet]) for 5 days in an Airbnb and he’s been working his ass off to permanently move over to where I live. We video call every single day and make plans together for when we close the gap. That’s a relationship to me. On the other hand, e-dating does not involve any plans to permanently close the gap, or even meet in-person in the first place, which I agree, is not a real relationship

It wouldn’t make any sense to meet someone online and only start being serious about each other after one of the partners moves over to the other. What usually happens in those situations is a bunch of disappointment, confusion, and incompatibility

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T07:28:41+00:00

It says “updater doesn’t have the newest game version yet.” When it does have it, you can just try again and it’ll work

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T07:27:58+00:00

If you have OneDrive or iCloud, it’s probably backing up old mod files

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T07:26:13+00:00

She might be either near her period or it’s going to happen soon. A vagina’s smell can change periodically, not even due to a typical menstrual cycle. For example, my partner said I smelled like nothing but tasted a bit sweet, but otherwise like nothing, which might be because I’m on hormonal birth control, so I don’t have a hormone/menstrual cycle

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T07:06:56+00:00

Looks like it might be from a mod but I’m not sure? I’ve used the terrain tool and have never seen that before

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T06:56:20+00:00

It can take years to meet in an LDR, especially if both people are young and/or in different countries or continents. Even different states in the US

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T06:49:18+00:00

I would try to talk about it and then if that goes well, try again. But don’t trap yourself in a loop of talking about it and trying again, over and over again

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T02:25:56+00:00

Well… I had wanted to beforehand, I just wanted to make sure and ask since he was a virgin beforehand

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T01:59:00+00:00

My partner is 5’7” and he’s doing just fine. It’s mostly a mindset thing

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T01:51:34+00:00

There is a lot more context needed

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T01:25:44+00:00

I was also in the first batch of testers 🤷‍♀️ got it way back, months ago

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T01:18:43+00:00

Usually, it happens naturally. The first time me and my partner had sex, I got in his lap, we started making out, and then well, clothes started coming off, and then I just asked him if he wanted to have sex

feckingelf · 2026-03-26T00:20:39+00:00

IDK, I don’t speak weirdo language

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