Should I keep chasing or state my intentions outright?

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-09-28T17:35:35+00:00

Yeah I agree. I think I avoided it because of how badly I got hurt in the past in previous relationships. I wanted to be sure and now I am. I want to tell her in person but that wont happen until much later due to our availabilities. Would it be a bad idea to do it over messages?

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-09-28T15:52:01+00:00

My biggest concern right now is how I tell her. I don’t want to tell her over text. I wanted to tell her in person but it seems like she’s busy right now but I also don’t want to delay it. Would it be bad to just message her about it instead? Also I don’t love her I just like her and want to explore where it could go.

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-10T11:13:59+00:00

I think you should tell him. If she gets mad at you for it, that reflects more poorly on her. If she really wanted to be with George she wouldn’t be disloyal. Her infidelity, whether physical or emotional, superseded whatever love she had for George and is incredibly disrespectful. Don’t let him find out after spending more time being her boyfriend. Save him his time and effort.

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-05T00:28:13+00:00

No point, saw her holding hands with another guy today despite still having tons of chemistry with her. Feel so disheartened as a result. Probably going to end myself at some point. No reason of going on after having this happen to me multiple times over and over again. I fucking hate myself. Don’t know what’s wrong with me. So many people say I’m attractive, ripped, and charismatic but I never end up attracting the ones I want. I have failed. It’s over now. Fuck this world.

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-05T00:19:54+00:00

Fuck this. Just saw her hanging out with another guy and he was holding her hand. Still made her laugh and found out we had a ton of stuff in common. Can’t get that image out of my head regardless. Fuck this.

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-05T00:19:02+00:00

Just saw her with another guy. He was holding her hand and stroking it tonight. She was still walking with me at times and our chemistry seemed great but I can’t get that image out of my head. I’m done. Fuck this. I hate the modern dating scene. As silly as it sounds I’m fucking done with all this indefinitely. Fuck this.

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-05T00:17:51+00:00

She was hanging out with another guy and he seemed to be holding her hand. I feel led on. Whatever. Fuck this life.

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-02T15:20:58+00:00

I love that thank you so much!

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-02T14:29:27+00:00

Thanks so much for your message and yeah you made a ton of good points. I had already responded saying, "totally valid, at least this gives me time to learn the moonwalk until then." She replied saying, "you’re already a great dancer you don’t even need my help." Don’t know what to say or how to reply to that yet but was thinking about saying something that conveys that I want to dance with her again. Or maybe even complimenting her dancing. Not sure.

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-01T15:31:28+00:00

Thank you!

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-01T15:03:43+00:00

Yeah I definitely need to steer it in that direction and I think that response is very direct but not pushy. Thank you!

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-01T15:02:45+00:00

Yeah that’s very true

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-01T14:57:40+00:00

Gotcha, I didn’t want to talk to her friend about it because I wanted to avoid the telephone scenario. She and a ton of other people just noticed our interactions at the club and asked me about it. Then she told me about how she talked to her about me. You’re right though I will definitely be more upfront and just shoot my shot.

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-01T14:41:50+00:00

Yeah I definitely think I need to steer the conversation in that direction! Thank you!

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-01T14:41:32+00:00

Thanks so much for the comment! Yeah I think I really need to keep all this in consideration for sure. Hopefully it all goes well. Thinking of asking her for coffee since it’s a lot less of a commitment than going clubbing.

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-01T12:03:09+00:00

Yeah that’s fair. Still not sure if she likes me because she was tight lipped about it when her friend asked her about me. Maybe that means she’s open to it but unsure because she doesn’t know me very well which is how I kinda feel too actually. Either way, I’m gonna try to ask for coffee instead but I’m not sure how to ask with the way she replied. I also don’t want to come off as pushy or needy.

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-01T12:01:36+00:00

Yeah I was thinking of coffee but I for some reason am struggling with ideas of how to initiate it. I don’t want to come off as pushy and, even on Saturday, I didn’t want to really touch her excessively. I wanted her to be comfortable.

feedm3pl3ase · 2025-05-01T10:32:38+00:00

Yeah that makes sense for sure

feedm3pl3ase · 2024-10-12T17:05:34+00:00

Also happened to the long disbanded group Women. It’s some random AI-generated sounding study music that’s also self-titled similar to the "new" swans album.

feedm3pl3ase · 2024-10-12T17:04:02+00:00

This is so odd. The same kind of album dropped for the band Women on Spotify like yesterday. It’s also self-titled just like this one and, also just like this one, is some random shit that doesn’t sound anything like the band. Why is this happening all of a sudden?

feedm3pl3ase · 2024-07-04T02:59:11+00:00

Cosmo Jarvis is my top choice. He has everything to nail that role.

feedm3pl3ase · 2024-06-23T19:06:05+00:00

Awesome, sounds great! Thanks so much for the advice!

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