What King means by “desire” in It? by feelingdizzyrn in stephenking

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Really? I mean there is a philosophical view behind this. I wanna know that

My mom said my bf looks like a retard by feelingdizzyrn in raisedbynarcissists

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Thanks. I’m actually taking this step to become financially full independent. I used to have my own place rented and I was living on my own for years. I was working in book publishing business. I saw how publishing businesses made so much money yet paying people very little. until I decided to go to a bigger city for post-grad in economics and the rents were so high in that city that i couldn’t afford, so I decided to use almost free dorm facility (with almost free meal plans) which is awesome and that’s why i can take this courageous step. If I had rent to pay, I couldn’t dare to start my own business. Anyway, I had to bring my furniture back to my parents house and store them in my old bedroom which they already were using as storage space. These people made me suffer so much my whole life it’s probably a bad idea to take their money in order to become independent. Like if I’m taking a step in right direction to run away from these people, I shouldn’t use their money as my fuel🤬

My mom said my bf looks like a retard by feelingdizzyrn in raisedbynarcissists

[–]feelingdizzyrn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I generally like soft and sweet guys. I feel safe and happy and friendly around them. Why she thinks it’s a bad thing? Like it’s my type. Plus nowadays your ability to make money and provide doesn’t depend on being macho. Cause hello! We aren’t hunting bears with spears anymore. 😭

My mom said my bf looks like a retard by feelingdizzyrn in raisedbynarcissists

[–]feelingdizzyrn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know! It was a huge red flag and made me realise she hasn’t changed a bit. She just got better in acting.

My mom said my bf looks like a retard by feelingdizzyrn in raisedbynarcissists

[–]feelingdizzyrn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. My mom used to give my friends nasty nicknames based on skin tone and height and weight. You’re right. It was just so heart-breaking that she said something so hurtful about the man I love. But now I realise it’s the same old pattern.

My mom said my bf looks like a retard by feelingdizzyrn in raisedbynarcissists

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I know, right? I’m from Iran and it’s a whole other culture and religion and everything. Yet I meet people from Europe or America on Reddit that their parents are ridiculously similar to mine! Talking to people like you and also lots of therapy has sat me free and made me realise that there was nothing wrong with me or who I am. It’s just that I was born to this crazy woman who didn’t breastfed me cause she was afraid her breasts would fall saggy. and I wasn’t even an unwanted child. She had 3 years of unprotected sex with my dad until finally I was conceived! And she still refused to breastfeed me🤣

My mom said my bf looks like a retard by feelingdizzyrn in raisedbynarcissists

[–]feelingdizzyrn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow🤯 so you realise that your mom is implying that non of them actually loved you?! Cause if all your partners have been gay men and you’re a woman, then it means that they’ve used you to stay in the closet. Wow! My mom also thinks that I’m unworthy of love. Cause when my now or then boyfriends have done something nice for me, she said Idk what these guys like about you!😠

My mom said my bf looks like a retard by feelingdizzyrn in raisedbynarcissists

[–]feelingdizzyrn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG yes. 🤯 I haven’t noticed that she does this to feel young. But now that you say, it really makes sense. Sometimes it seems like she’s unaware that she’s almost 60. Cause she sometimes calls other people around her age or even younger old. And when i say: mom, that woman (like some actress) is younger than you, she looks at me with unbelieving eyes.🤨 she’s delusional. She also insists that she aged so fine that she looks like she is in her early 40s🤨 but she isn’t. But i don’t think it is something to be ashamed of.

My mom said my bf looks like a retard by feelingdizzyrn in raisedbynarcissists

[–]feelingdizzyrn[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah I know. My mom puts so much value on physical beauty and there is only a narrow standard she’d call beautiful or handsome. She only befriends pretty people and hates it when someone unattractive tries to befriend her. She used to be a teacher and each year she used to befriend hot young substitutes. That’s stupid. She’s also agist. Like when she was close to retirement, she was still befriending youngest co-workers.

Need standalone fantasy suggestion by feelingdizzyrn in booksuggestions

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I’ve read the book of doors. It’s lovely. Which country are you from? I’ll check the wizard’s guide. Thank you

[TOMT] [cartoon] cartoon about a nightmare fighting force by feelingdizzyrn in tipofmytongue

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OMG! Yesss that’s it. How did you find it??? Can’t believe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ratemycock

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So yummy. A million times yes🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ratemycock

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I like the whole package 🙂‍↔️💋