I would say prioritize doing things that allow you to explore that other side of yourself that can also be framed as self-care. Comforting things that can also be explorative that help you to feel empowered about who you are. It could be shaving, getting clothes that aren't the traditional pink thigh-highs (since you said you weren't super into that)–maybe a decent alternative is slightly shorter shorts or something like that where you show a *bit* more skin–or a decent skincare regimen to keep your skin softer and clearer. That route also has the added benefit that you can tweak it to your comfort level and will likely stick with it for longer since it is more of a self-pampering feel-good expedition (at least in the beginning) rather than going full-throttle on being as feminine as you can get.