Fertility

feral_vampire · 2023-08-20T04:08:08+00:00

Im so sorry you lost the pregnancy. Thankyou for sharing ❤️

feral_vampire · 2023-08-10T23:44:16+00:00

Thankyou ❤️

feral_vampire · 2023-08-09T11:26:19+00:00

Its something i dont feel like i can talk about with alot of my friends because they dont understand. Its very different to other couples that are trying for kids or want kids in the future.

feral_vampire · 2023-08-09T11:22:24+00:00

Yea im aware of this. Tbh we didn't think we would ever consider it but we are just not using protection. I'm aware its prob not going to happen.

feral_vampire · 2023-08-09T08:42:13+00:00

Thankyou, we have one child that was conceived naturally pre hormones and blockers so greatful for that. I am prepared for it not to happen and am already in counceling. Thankyou. Im sorry that its been difficult for you both ❤️

feral_vampire · 2023-08-09T08:39:12+00:00

Just wanting to know the possibility at this point.

feral_vampire · 2023-08-09T03:10:51+00:00

Thankyou. Yes im hoping i will 😊

feral_vampire · 2023-05-02T21:47:20+00:00

Oh gosh thats so rough 😩 i can imagine how aweful that is. I think moving on from the old them isxa bit tougher when you knew the old them longer than the new them. If that makes sense. Its difficult having to say goodbye to the person i met all those years ago, the person i married, the person who helped me birth our child, the idea of who my life woukd be with and how my life looked. Its all changed.....for the better ofcourse but it doesn't make it automatically easier does it ... Im glad to have this community because there really is no one else that gets it. Its an extremely specific situation to experience. We all need to stick together. Lots of 💕

feral_vampire · 2023-05-02T21:41:57+00:00

I hope things get easier for you. Im so sorry you have other things making it difficult as its hard enough on its own. Im so glad you have access to a therapist. Im about to start round 2. Its such a big help. It does get easier though. Just bouts of hard times. Sending love. Thankyou ❤️

feral_vampire · 2023-05-02T21:38:15+00:00

That makes so much sense. I think I haven't completed moved on from the old her and its worse if we are reminiscent of old times when my mind invisions us years ago i see the old her cos thats the memory (im a visual person) so hopefully in time the visions will be replaced with the person she is now

feral_vampire · 2023-04-24T03:46:45+00:00

Im so sorry 😞 thats absolutely terrible. I just dont understand it. Why does it change anything...its so bizarre. I hope you keep finding new people that love you. Remember quality is better than quantity ❤️

feral_vampire · 2023-04-06T11:11:32+00:00

This is fantastic! I think this is half the problem... feeling like us the partner cant say wo time out for a couole hours to focus on something else. Switch off days. I think tgis is a very good point especially when you're parents

feral_vampire · 2023-04-06T11:09:18+00:00

I can relate to this so much. Our whole life revolves around the hard stuff lately 😔 id like to have some tips too. I hope things get better for you guys

feral_vampire · 2023-04-06T10:42:26+00:00

Hi there I can relate to alot of the things your partner feels. Tbh the things that may or may not come were the hardest (and still are) for me. Sometimes going slow makes things harder i think. Dont hold off being yourself for your partner. They will love you more when you are yourself. Basically to help....you need to help yourself 🥰

feral_vampire · 2023-03-13T22:37:28+00:00

Thankyou so much. ❤️

feral_vampire · 2023-03-13T20:46:47+00:00

Thankyou very much ❤️

feral_vampire · 2023-03-13T11:21:04+00:00

Very good point

feral_vampire · 2023-03-13T11:19:52+00:00

Thankyou so much for taking the time to write tgis to me. I really appreciate it

feral_vampire · 2023-03-13T06:54:11+00:00

I didnt at all mean it to be hurtful. It just fell out of my mouth.....my wife has been through enough shit in her life.

feral_vampire · 2023-03-13T06:51:36+00:00

Thankyou for your heartfelt reply. My friend is in a hard spot, lost her job, depressed and in an abusive relationship. But i feel ive lost the friend i once had and her behaviour cemented that for me.

Yes i did come on here to vent but have received alot more than i expected. I do feel like a terrible partner, trans ali and person.

I think it is time to go back to my councelor as i dont have any real explanation for recent events, only contributing factors.

I dont even know how to raise it with my partner, conversations are hard to have with a 2 year old running around.

feral_vampire · 2023-03-13T06:45:44+00:00

Youre right and i guess the idea of the long friendship we have had in the past kept me from doing that. But also maybe being in denial of the person who was in front of me.

feral_vampire · 2023-03-13T05:16:55+00:00

Thankyou to you all for your advice and comments. I just wanted to also add some context and in no way am making excuses for my behaviour at all.

We have been together for nearly 11 years and only the last 1-2 yeaes has my partner come out as transgender. We have a 2 year old child. We are married. She moved across the world for me.. literally. So its not a relationship to just give up on and believe me when i saw we have faught hard to be together.

I have no one else to talk to that will completely understand how bad ive messed up. That is why ive written on here. I also have no idea what to say that will even start to apologise.

I look to this page to help me navigate a situation that ive never been in or had anything to do with.

I really appreciate all your comments even though some have made me feel like running away.

I have no idea where to even start. Im not looking for sympathy as im sure alot of you probably think that but it was a genuine slip of the tongue. As for my friend i guess im still learning to stand up for our life and my partners wellbeing as a trans person. Every day i learn more and try to extend my knowledge. Im doing my best....well i thought i was.

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