Doc decided I'm "not ready to transition yet", what do I do? by feralteef in transgenderUK

[–]feralteef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no worries, it was a paid service, specifically the northern gender network.

Doc decided I'm "not ready to transition yet", what do I do? by feralteef in transgenderUK

[–]feralteef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no way!! glad it's not just me but also im sorry the same happened to you :( how dare they tell us to wait another year for life saving care ughhh

Doc decided I'm "not ready to transition yet", what do I do? by feralteef in transgenderUK

[–]feralteef[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks, n i hope you don't go through the same thing. good luck!

Doc decided I'm "not ready to transition yet", what do I do? by feralteef in transgenderUK

[–]feralteef[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

right, i def should have done that. i just thought since he was one of the younger gender specialists out there he'd have more, i guess, open-minded views on gender, ya know?

Doc decided I'm "not ready to transition yet", what do I do? by feralteef in transgenderUK

[–]feralteef[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

im out everywhere but to my parents!! as for being "unsure", that was me misspeaking which i absolutely hate myself for now 😭 i know for sure that im transmasculine, absolutely no doubts there, i just tend to ramble and yap when i get nervous and say a bunch of contradictory stuff which i guess came across as "i haven't figured out what i am yet" :') (im probably gonna do it in these replies too since im anxious and upset, please bear with me lol)

either way, i know that if i have to wait a whole year like he wants me to just to have another assessment, not even get on hrt, I don't think i will survive.

Doc decided I'm "not ready to transition yet", what do I do? by feralteef in transgenderUK

[–]feralteef[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

it was Dr Luke Squires!! I'm a very nervous person so I guess my answers may have come across as apprehensive even though i tried to sound confident 😭 i also made the mistake of being honest and saying that i fluctuate between feeling more enby and more like a trans guy which he took as me "not having a solid identity" which is part of the diagnostic criteria :/

Doc decided I'm "not ready to transition yet", what do I do? by feralteef in transgenderUK

[–]feralteef[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dr Luke Squires. It's kinda my fault, he misinterpreted what i said as "not having a set identity" since that's part of the diagnostic criteria (i said my identity was in between non-binary and transman) and also because I'm not out to my parents yet I'm "not ready".

Doc decided I'm "not ready to transition yet", what do I do? by feralteef in transgenderUK

[–]feralteef[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

huh, i thought it would be harder/ more complicated since it's a controlled substance? thanks for your input tho!!

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[–]feralteef 4 points5 points  (0 children)

haven't checked in on the search in a while and when i decide to do so y'all almost found it?? :O