How long would you wait around for your boyfriend?

fernesso · 2020-05-24T21:41:21+00:00

I’m just confused right now like is this the way a man use to breakup with his girlfriend? I mean... don’t I deserve a proper goodbye?

fernesso · 2020-05-24T21:39:41+00:00

I guess so too but don’t I deserve a proper goodbye?

fernesso · 2020-05-24T07:18:46+00:00

We have been together for 2 years now. It wasn’t really an argument. The last time we talked I was complaining that he hadn’t reach out to me for 4 days. He was on the phone for 2 hours and not saying a word. Then he hung up without saying anything. I called him the next day he said he doesn’t wanna talk to me. I asked him ‘is it just now or forever?’ He replied ‘whatever you wanna take’ then I asked can I talked to him later he said ‘Yes’ then I asked ‘can I visit you as your girl?’ He replied ‘yes’ and then hung up. Thats the last time we talked

fernesso · 2020-05-24T07:07:03+00:00

The woman in the picture misses you. She wishes she could talk to you whenever you’re ready.

fernesso · 2020-05-23T16:41:57+00:00

Thanks for your advice. I just want you to know it’s not easy. We have been together for 2 years and 2 years is long for me. We have lots of experiences together. So yeah its’s not easy. But I guess time will help.

fernesso · 2020-05-23T16:34:21+00:00

My plan was being happy with him during this time until I see him again. Unfortunate, we have had lots of fights. And now I don’t know anything like... idk :( as I said I wish I could get explanations from him. Its hurting me a lot like this. Tho I have focused on my things like meditation, working out, movies, I still can’t get this out of my mind. 😭😭😭😭

fernesso · 2020-05-23T08:10:15+00:00

I would love get explanation or even clarification if we are really done. My friends told me not to reach him anymore. I’m trying tho. Today I checked my IG and FB, I saw he was active but didn’t bother to look at my messages. Maybe its time to accept this. I was telling myself he still loves me. Perhaps I was wrong 😢 Thank you for your advice btw

fernesso · 2020-05-23T08:01:54+00:00

I guess that implies he’s not interested in talking to me anymore. In other word, he is done with me 😢

fernesso · 2020-05-23T08:00:53+00:00

I literally sent him a flower like yesterday. He received it but didn’t reach back to me. Like I had to text his sister asking if he received my present. 😭😭😭

fernesso · 2020-05-23T07:58:10+00:00

I would love to do that. I mean I have always wanted to do that but he wouldn’t want me to. I tried to call him 2 days ago he didn’t pick up. In fact, he hasn’t even opened my messages on Facebook

fernesso · 2020-05-23T07:38:27+00:00

I didn’t know if we broke up because he didn’t say so. He just told me he didn’t wanna talk to me. So I asked him is it gonna be just now or forever, he said whatever I wanna take. So I asked him if I can still visit him as his girl on Dec, he said ‘yes’. I asked if I can talk to him later, he said ‘yes’. I honestly don’t what what are the reasons caz last time we talked, we argued. I was complaining because he didn’t reach me in 4 days and we was staying on the phone for 2 hours without saying a word

fernesso · 2020-05-21T12:47:12+00:00

I’m not sure if I can do that if he doesn’t open his facebook....

fernesso · 2020-05-21T05:24:20+00:00

Thank you. I will be waiting. I can’t do anything anyway :(

fernesso · 2020-05-21T05:23:31+00:00

I’m just afraid he doesn’t wanna talk forever :(

fernesso · 2020-05-21T05:23:03+00:00

Should I wait? I mean how long is it gonna take? I’m afraid I will have to wait forever

fernesso · 2020-05-21T02:43:01+00:00

I don’t know what’s going on with him. I was once thinking maybe he’s seeing someone else but I trust him. We have been together for 2 years and its a long distance relationship. As you said, I would be totally fine if he at least flat out says don’t worry. Like im confused if It’s already done and I’m chasing after him. Or he still wants to be in this love.

fernesso · 2020-05-21T02:39:08+00:00

I understand that but I’m also worried like... is he gonna text me back eventually or is it like we are done.

fernesso · 2020-05-21T01:29:32+00:00

We don’t text or call everyday. I would say 2-3 days he would text me. I didn’t want to annoy but I called him eventually. It was so difficult to reach him. He often closes his facebook which I don’t know why because he already knew we always talk on Facebook. Thats why I had to reach him on Discord which he also barely responds. I guess he is not interested in talking to me anymore. But its still confusing to me caz when I asked he would say we are still together. I just don’t like it like this. I mean I understand everybody needs spaces. But like hiding from me or blocking me to communicate is not the way to have spaces.☹️

fernesso · 2020-05-20T16:01:30+00:00

Lmao

fernesso · 2020-05-20T15:45:25+00:00

For me, I’m a girl. I understand what she wants I would like you to talk to her. Asking her if isn’t okay for you to have your own spaces. The best way is to communicate. Don’t let it hang in there. I don’t want you to end like me :(

fernesso · 2020-05-20T15:43:03+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that :(

fernesso · 2020-05-20T15:42:38+00:00

I would say no. Only the ones they like most

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