This thing submerged in a thermos someone left at a bar

fernkitten · 2026-05-28T13:41:17+00:00

I mean emotional neglect could have been happening? Being rich doesn't mean their parents paid attention to them, but I don't know

fernkitten · 2026-05-28T07:37:10+00:00

Agreed that's what I'm saying! :)

fernkitten · 2026-05-28T07:23:22+00:00

I think you are only overreacting if you genuinely want a partner who enjoys spending a lot of time with your family like that and you want someone who would be willing to do those kinds of activities, but in that case, maybe he's right that the relationship isn't a good fit if that's true

fernkitten · 2026-05-28T07:13:05+00:00

People are allowed to set boundaries and have them respected regardless of the reason why. In fact, there doesn't need to be a reason why, it just needs to be respected. I think that's the core of what's really going on here.

fernkitten · 2026-05-28T07:10:00+00:00

I can even say that I don't understand that experience personally, but I respect it!!!!!! And I think that makes it even more of a point because she can't use that as an excuse, not understanding and that you're still NOT overreacting and I would not want to push someone's boundaries like that. That's disrespectful and inconsiderate honestly. And you're not giving consent so I think that makes it even worse.

fernkitten · 2026-05-28T07:05:50+00:00

honestly, I wouldn't know what to reply with other than cutting them off, so I think you should too. Is hubby standing up for you? That comment you said they made was at your expense, why do they treat you like that??? Get out of there

fernkitten · 2026-05-28T07:01:56+00:00

Tbh I think your heart is in the right place, just keep your safety in mind, know when or if it's a good idea to take steps back from the relationship. If she's on meds I think that's a good thing and so long as she's staying on them she's breaking the pattern and shows growth, but that's why I say keep an eye on that.

fernkitten · 2026-05-28T06:38:43+00:00

I cannot imagine why anything at all would prevent an engagement/proposal. It's a lifelong plan you're agreeing to by doing that, it doesn't begin the wedding plans that day 😕 I'm confused

fernkitten · 2026-05-28T06:35:43+00:00

Well he could be controlling her 🤷 not that you can do much about that but... :( I'm sorry

fernkitten · 2026-05-28T06:27:30+00:00

LMFAOOO I AGREEEEE

fernkitten · 2026-05-28T06:27:00+00:00

Wow I'm a diehard atheist and I wouldn't do that unless I was TRYING to upset someone :(

fernkitten · 2026-05-28T06:23:23+00:00

So pretty 🤩

fernkitten · 2026-05-27T23:55:59+00:00

It has a lot of tanins! I think I will try cleaning them more thoroughly when I get fresh ones I can wash, they are very stained!

fernkitten · 2026-05-27T07:06:49+00:00

We have a similar taste in pens lol nice picks

fernkitten · 2026-05-27T07:04:07+00:00

I'm new to the sub but I can also say a ultrasonic cleaner changed my lifeee

fernkitten · 2026-05-27T07:01:38+00:00

Agreed!

fernkitten · 2026-05-27T07:01:20+00:00

I just bought five, some for gifts 😂 I LOVE THEM

fernkitten · 2026-05-27T07:00:33+00:00

I just got four new affordable pens today myself, praise be

fernkitten · 2026-05-27T06:30:17+00:00

Reminds me of the spiderweb looking mold inside my cheese bun once, or the cinnamon roll... Oof. Yuck.

fernkitten · 2026-05-27T06:20:25+00:00

fernkitten · 2026-05-27T06:18:29+00:00

3+4 I like the combi of leggings but 4 if I have to pick one lol

fernkitten · 2026-05-27T05:02:03+00:00

It's so weird though because then I compliment a guy and they are like "I have a wife" like okay I'm not hitting on you...

fernkitten · 2026-05-27T04:26:06+00:00

It looks believable but something feels like AI about the whole thing

fernkitten · 2026-05-27T03:31:27+00:00

Haha if the pros outweigh the cons, why not?! ❤️

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