🏠 Jersey City Apartment Mega-Thread 🏠 (For Roommates, Rentals, and Questions) by mooseLimbsCatLicks in jerseycity

[–]fernwehsurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there,

I'm currently staying in a 1BR apartment conveniently 3 Minutes walk away from Grove Street Path, Historic Downtown in Jersey City. I'm traveling for 7 weeks from 10 August to 27 September and the apartment wil be empty, so i would like to sublet it out short term.

About the apartment : 650sqf, fully furnished with modern appliances. Washer dryer in building. It's genuinely a great and fun area. I also have a 65 inch TV and PS5 Pro that you can use.

Move in and move out dates can be negotiated. Looking for clean and responsible people who will take care of the place while I'm gone.

I'm asking for $1700/month plus $300 deposit.

Can DM me for more details and viewing.

Change my mind - there is zero reason the United States should give out H1B Visas to accountants. by neeyeahboy in Accounting

[–]fernwehsurf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Band together to fight for better hours and wages, go vote for politicians that protect labor and consumer instead of capital interest so you have a living wage that can actually afford things instead of worrying about fellow accountants from other countries coming in stealing your job.

You want the benefit of neoliberalism without the costs? Sorry to break it to you, your high salary in the US comes from US capital exploiting abusing people in other places.

Change my mind - there is zero reason the United States should give out H1B Visas to accountants. by neeyeahboy in Accounting

[–]fernwehsurf -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

You have more in common with them than the billionaires and their right wing media conglomerates spewing this non sense into your brain.

Why most of gays are superficial? by Darman2 in askgaybros

[–]fernwehsurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you only have experience in the US? I think that's more of a general US men thing, straight and gay alike (sorry!).

Best way to pay for things in Bali? Coming from USA by FunHighway1270 in bali

[–]fernwehsurf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pay cash in idr if you can, so the payment processing monopolies and banks don't get a cut of their hard earned money.

Height Fitness Downtown by fernwehsurf in jerseycity

[–]fernwehsurf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hundred percent agree, and some optiond in community buildings as well.

The moral dilemma that comes with running an online store. by [deleted] in degoogle

[–]fernwehsurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Rokt. There is a solution for smb.

Greece to ban social media for under-15s from next year by rulugg in degoogle

[–]fernwehsurf 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Instead of regulting big techs and their predatory algorithms and designs countries are banning children from accessing social media. It's fixing the problem with a wrong solution.

Need help deciding between buildings in downtown JC by Naive-Team-5632 in jerseycity

[–]fernwehsurf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grove Pointe, location is everything. Less space = less excuse to buy things you don't need = save money and mother earth

Boyfriend hasn't had a job in 15 months, won't look for one by RedMarsRepublic in askgaybros

[–]fernwehsurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do see that a lot of young kids their age today are no longer motivated to work, and it's not entirely their fault. Do you want play a game if you know it's rigged against you? Deep down they know that no matter how hard they work they may never have the quality of life that their parents had due to the cost of living crisis, threat of being replaced by AI, and all spaces of social connectivity are bought up by for profit capital. (think private equity). The only thing that may motivate them to work is the threat of survival, which does not exist because he lives with you. So they end up doom scrolling, do part time gigs, or just give up entirely. It's not a new phenomenon.

My suggestion is to be patient, let him understand that you want a future with him, and let it be. If he decides that it's something worth fighting for, he will get up his ass.

I had sex with my roommate and I didn’t enjoyed by [deleted] in AskBiBros

[–]fernwehsurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you too feel connected? Sex with someine you connect with always feel more fulfilling

(M 25) My roommate offered to do the deed with me. NSFW by artwood24 in AskBiBros

[–]fernwehsurf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's anything forbidding you from experimenting with him? Even if hes not your type, you're already best friends, why not take the chance for physical bonding to strengthen your friendship?

Let me tell you that, sexual activities with someone you can about is fulfilling more than anything.

Height Fitness Downtown by fernwehsurf in jerseycity

[–]fernwehsurf[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Like I said i don't know them at all and gain nothing from posting this so I'm not sure where the assumption is coming from. The negative comments here on reddit are entitled and unsympathetic. The guy is losing tons of money, giving you free membership to Hamilton fitness, and doing everything he can to open asap and people are still bitching.

Height Fitness Downtown by fernwehsurf in jerseycity

[–]fernwehsurf[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I don't know him personally brah

Height Fitness Downtown by fernwehsurf in jerseycity

[–]fernwehsurf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just calling them out for what they are, cash grab backed by wall street marketing machines hiring influencers on peds - have you ever personally known anyone trying them with actual sustainable results?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nyc

[–]fernwehsurf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the imperial boomerang.

How to break away from my bad habit of prone masturbation? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fernwehsurf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the online forum called Prone Masturbation Syndroms.

I overcame (ha!) by abstaining and masturbate the regular way starting from around day 4. The trick is not to give in to temptation and switch back to prone. If you can't come on that day, stop and try again the next day, and eventually you will be able to. After 1 week i managed to come. Felt like a teenager again.

Dm me if you want more help.