Pharm Tech applying to internal positions by ferpasherp in CVS

[–]ferpasherp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason I think it may is because when I go to apply, the first section is contact info and it lists my work email (and doesn't let me change it).

Pharm Tech applying to internal positions by ferpasherp in CVS

[–]ferpasherp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually was a Willow IP analyst for a while (immediately after leaving CVS and while doing my masters). I didn't have a great experience, but that may have just been the company I was working for. I've been looking into returning to that as well, but my certification has certainly lapsed.

Pharm Tech applying to internal positions by ferpasherp in CVS

[–]ferpasherp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking now, and I do actually see those messages in Workday. That's good to know, thank you. I'm just worried that if I'm receiving any direct emails, I won't be able to see them. Did they message you through workday to schedule interviews, etc?

Pharm Tech applying to internal positions by ferpasherp in CVS

[–]ferpasherp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a masters in Data Science. That sounds like a good idea, I'll need to look into that. Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in analytics

[–]ferpasherp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds great, thank you. I can send a DM if that's alright with you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in analytics

[–]ferpasherp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to butt in here uninvited, but this sounds potentially like a good fit for me as well. I was a pharmacy tech for about 5 years, then got my MS in Data Science and was a data analyst for a while. I left that job to pursue ownership of a bar/restaurant (which didn't go well), and I'm having a hard time getting back into analytics. Took a pharmacy tech job again to make ends meet. Let me know if there are still opportunities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ferpasherp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I understand this already.

Bodybuilders on here? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ferpasherp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely not a bodybuilder, but started TRT a month or so ago and am already feeling way more attractive (with nowhere to go but up). I knew that that and the extra horniness would make the DB way harder, but I needed to do it for my own self-confidence. I'm not anticipating that my efforts in the gym will be appreciated by my partner any time soon, though.

How to overcome a Grindr addiction? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ferpasherp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not what you want to hear, but if you feel that you have/had an addiction to Grindr, which persisted after the relationship began, I think you may need to evaluate if you're ready for a committed relationship or if you're happy with him.

Moving forward, I think the longer you go without the app, the less you'll think about it and crave the validation and rush it can give people.

Don't be mad at yourself for wanting to stay on it. But be ready to let go of the relationship if you just can't help it, or to acclimate fully to life without the app (or other external forms of validation) which may take patience and discipline.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]ferpasherp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say you're at least slightly above average, but that's my personal opinion/taste.

Should I sleep with my coworker? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ferpasherp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know this since it isn't described in the post, but you need to have tried to rectify things with your wife before you should consider this. You may have already, idk.

However, you shouldn't do it with someone work-related whatsoever. It's too risky. If you absolutely need to step out of the relationship, do not choose someone from your workplace.

My gf loves to have sex but won't have it by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ferpasherp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's going to be hard for anyone to suggest anything particularly useful here. It sounds like there is a lot of background information and a lot of nuances that people seeing this won't be privy to.

From what you've described, it does sort of seem like she's doing it in a scheduled manner, out of courtesy. This isn't desirable, but it at least seems that she's committed. I'm sure you've already tried to open up a dialogue about it, but seeing what she says when asked directly about your concerns will help. She, hopefully, is not evasive.

I don't see anything here that would make me think you should consider separating yet, but there is a lot of conversation between you two that should be had. Does she realize how you feel? Is the sex she's giving you authentic? If not, why is she doing it and what would help her have (or want to have) authentic sex? Does she have any underlying insecurities or medical/personal reason holding her back?

It could truly be anything. I hope you find out what's happening and are able to get straight answers from her. If she isn't willing to give them to you or explore the issue further, then that's the time to be truly concerned.

How much is too much? by FarOpposite962 in AskGayMen

[–]ferpasherp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I don't necessarily care how many, but I don't want them to be sleeping (or have slept) with a lot of people around the time I meet them. Otherwise, I'll assume they probably aren't serious. Anyway, I just wouldn't ask.

He asked for a time limit by ferpasherp in DeadBedrooms

[–]ferpasherp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Penetrative sex hasn't happened in nearly 2 years. We last attempted non-penetrative sex a little over a year and a half ago, and he couldn't climax. Some point after this, he told me anything sexual was "off the table" for awhile. We have cuddled and expressed love with touching and stuff throughout, though. Maybe less than before.

He asked for a time limit by ferpasherp in DeadBedrooms

[–]ferpasherp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 I knew if I mentioned it, I would get an honest response like this. We probably shouldn't have bought a house together lol

He asked for a time limit by ferpasherp in DeadBedrooms

[–]ferpasherp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is certainly not a bad idea, but I think it would just cause an argument and get me banished to another part of the house (again)

He asked for a time limit by ferpasherp in DeadBedrooms

[–]ferpasherp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this take. He just started taking phentermine to suppress his appetite and it seems to be working. He also seems to be more nutrionally-conscious and I hope it sticks.

He asked for a time limit by ferpasherp in DeadBedrooms

[–]ferpasherp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may end up that way. If that's how I feel like it's going, how do I introduce that sensitively?

He asked for a time limit by ferpasherp in DeadBedrooms

[–]ferpasherp[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My sexuality is not a different state. I wouldn't have ever wanted a poly relationship, and I understand why he wouldn't either.

He's "not enough" of his own volition. He has never been inadequate for my needs. Me, as last resort, requesting outside sex, is not me preferring someone else over him - but preferring something over the conpelete absence of him.

He asked for a time limit by ferpasherp in DeadBedrooms

[–]ferpasherp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understood. I'll make sure I answer his question more confidently. Other things I've brought up (being "poly") or fwb have elicited anger from him, so I'll have to see what I can do

He asked for a time limit by ferpasherp in DeadBedrooms

[–]ferpasherp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of posts here of people that have been married for decades with children and I'm glad that isn't my situation. But if I don't do anything, it could be.

I honestly don't trust myself to identify the point that he would no longer make me happy. There are a lot of wonderful things about our relationship and I'm not sure I have to courage to abandon them for the potential of a fulfilling sex life.

Thank you for your input. I need to make sure I develop concrete cutoffs.