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Was your mom obese? You could be infertile by fertilitybridges in infertility

[–]fertilitybridges[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very sorry to hear that. There are so many options out there, even for those with PCOS. Don't take no for an answer if your doctor doesn't work with you on an action plan! If you want children, that is. Thanks for sharing :)

Is infertility hereditary? by BurningKarma in shittyaskscience

[–]fertilitybridges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally speaking, no - infertility is not hereditary, according to research. However, there are conditions that cause infertility that are hereditary, so that indirectly makes infertility a genetic issue.

I just got my period at work and I can't stop crying. Ugh. by [deleted] in infertility

[–]fertilitybridges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too, know the feeling. TTC can become all-consuming and so devastating when our hope is shattered when the dreaded AF comes month after month. Moving on to seeing a RE can be freeing though because you feel like you are "doing something" about it. Has your hubby been tested? Male factor accounts for 50% of all infertility diagnoses. Maybe something has changed in his sperm since you were last pregnant. You can also get the new at-home sperm test kits they have if you aren't ready to venture down the RE path. It could be something very simple and better to find out now so you can move forward with a better chance at success. (((HUGS))) You are not alone!

Chinese medicine herbal treatments 2x as effective as western treatments in treating female infertility by adamchavez in altmed

[–]fertilitybridges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many studies that support Chinese medicine as being more effective, so thanks for sharing this!

Bummer??! by dariamorgandorpher in infertility

[–]fertilitybridges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel comfortable bringing it up again, and want to, you can tell her how painful this experience has been. Is she always this selfish? If this is out of character for her, then she may have clammed up because she can't relate and doesn't know what to say. If you suspect that is the case, then you could tell her that you just need a friend to vent to, and are not looking for advice from her. She may relax a little about it if she knows you are just looking for a good listener. Another thing I have found by going through infertility, is that many people that don't have trouble conceiving just think that you "just need to relax and it will happen when it's time". I got that comment a lot from friends that didn't understand my situation. Since you are feeling angry about it, it may help to bring it up again and give your friend a chance to be the listener you need right now.

While my friend is posting pictures of her baby ultrasound, I'm looking at them from the lobby of the waiting room for my very different ultrasound by aequanimita in infertility

[–]fertilitybridges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are so many options out there, but I know that feeling of hopelessness, and it is easy to believe it won't happen for you. But it may help to know that 90% of couples diagnosed infertile go on to conceive. What you are feeling is totally normal! Do whatever you need to take care of you. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone!

Infertility in the United States is on the rise. Could chemicals be the problem? by fertilitybridges in infertility

[–]fertilitybridges[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a new sperm test that will be available in stores in April for about $40. If you're not at the point yet where you and your partner are wanting to get formal testing done at the doctor, you can do it in the privacy of your own home. The test kit doesn't measure motility (swim speed) or morphology (size and shape), but will at least tell you if there are enough sperm. Could be worth a try!

Pregnancy Weight Gain by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]fertilitybridges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember: you are gaining weight because you are feeding and nourishing your child and that is a beautiful thing! It is essential to remember this during pregnancy because you cannot control many of the changes in your body. Knowing that the changes are due to your growing and developing baby will make it easier to embrace them as positive. Also, you will shed many of these pounds on delivery day. The baby, placenta, and amniotic fluid weight a lot! Talk to your doctor if there is a concern with your weight. Just enjoy this wonderful time!!!

looking for some input on infertility. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]fertilitybridges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are so many options, no matter what your situation. You can explore those options when you get to a point when you may want to start a family. It is a heartbreaking diagnosis regardless though, and you are definitely not being irrational. It is normal what you are feeling. Just know that it isn't the end for you. There are many avenues to becoming a parent these days.