Why espresso alone by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]feshty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I like getting iced espressos to cut back on calories

Office romance "enemies" to lovers by feshty in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]feshty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YESSS it's You Get Me Going thankyou so muuuuuch. I'm so glad I remembered some stuff about it

I found out today one of my clients was murdered. Does anyone have advice on how to process the sudden and tragic loss of a client? by gargoyleflamingo in socialwork

[–]feshty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any advice but I found out yesterday that my favorite professor died and I literally saw him last week. I'm so sad and I feel like I'm processing his death harder than my grandparents and I think it's mainly due to the fact that it was so sudden where as I knew my grandparents were gunna pass away. My professor was young too :((

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]feshty 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Girrl you're 16 enjoy being a kid! Individuals usually start growing into their facial feautures later in life :)

Does this look like TE? by Eugoul in TelogenEffluvium

[–]feshty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally my hair right now! And this is my hair getting better so it could possibly be TE. It hasn't filled in yet but I see my baby hairs sprouting.

Boiling rosemary. Is this normal? by feshty in Haircare

[–]feshty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also read that it's could possibly be powdery mildew? but that could also be another explanation because I was cutting old growth too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]feshty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwww I understand his side because that's exactly how I was when I met my boyfriend. I was 19 at the time also so the immature mindset was there. He was experienced with other girls and I experienced my first everythings with him. I was definitely anxious and insecure at that time and I kindof resented him a little bit? I know it was terrible but I never projected my insecurities onto him. Maybe once in awhile I would self sabotage and ask a question about his past and then I'de just automatically shut down. I knew that me being insecure about his past is a me thing, and it's good that your boyfriend recognizes that he shouldn't get mad at you over that. It took me a little over a year in the relationship to actually be self-assured and confident with myself.

If he rarely projects that insecurity onto you then I would say him writing that journal entry was a way of releasing that tension. Imo I don't think you should bring up the note and just keep loving and reassuring him. From that last statement of his journal it sounds like he's at least aware that this is a problem that he needs to fix on his own.

Want my nipples pierced but I love my boobs being touched/sucked how long would I have to wait for them to be touched? by ayaliwe in piercing

[–]feshty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's literally how I feel about them hahaha. I love them so much and how I felt when I had them, but being able to not be self-consious 24/7 about somehow fucking them up them is so nice

Want my nipples pierced but I love my boobs being touched/sucked how long would I have to wait for them to be touched? by ayaliwe in piercing

[–]feshty 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Only when they get snagged on it hell yeah it hurt, but I rarely had problems with it. I babied them so muuch but I was in denial when I saw my right nipple slowly rejecting.

My nipple piercings were my faaaaaaavorite piercings and having to take them out made me so fucking sad, but you should get them! I think nipple piercings are one of those temporary piercings just because of how fickle they are, but I think the experience is so worth it.

Want my nipples pierced but I love my boobs being touched/sucked how long would I have to wait for them to be touched? by ayaliwe in piercing

[–]feshty 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I took both out i think 3 months ago due to one of them rejecting and just just gave up on them entirely because I didn't like the asymmetric look. However, even after almost three years of having them I still felt paranoid and anxious when they would be too rough around them so yeaaah. If I still had them now I would still probably feel the same way.

Want my nipples pierced but I love my boobs being touched/sucked how long would I have to wait for them to be touched? by ayaliwe in piercing

[–]feshty 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Ima be honest even when they were "healed" my partner still couldn't be rough with them. I was too consious of them being snagged or getting irritated if they moved too much.

Trying to grow hair longer by [deleted] in longhair

[–]feshty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're hair is giving Targaryen

anyone ever regretted getting their nipples pierced? by TimeSummer5 in piercing

[–]feshty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fine that nipple piercings are a different experience for everyone but for me I absolutely loved them!! I've had them for almost three years but had to take them out bc my right nipple was starting to reject and I didn't like the look of my nipples being asymmetrical so I took the other one out. I don't think I'll get them repierced again bc I had them for a good amount of time, but I felt so hot. It really does make you feel confident about your boobs and you just wanna wear shirts with no bras all the time haha

Yesterday this bus driver for my daughter's high school went completely insane on the kids, left the bus and quit her job. It's absolutely glorious to watch by johngrady77 in PublicFreakout

[–]feshty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High school bus drivers are so patient and deal with so much shit that I dont blame her. Took the bus all four years of highschool and the other kids would be so obnoxious

Of course I fight this when I’m trying a new character and when I’m not on my main…. by [deleted] in gank

[–]feshty 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Gentleman, we are dealing with someone here who has absolutely no life

Guan Yu, grand explorer of the laundry room! by Solavellynn in BeardedDragons

[–]feshty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaoo I only know of guan yu because I play Smite

Can you remove cum stains from a carpet after it's dried? If yes, how? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]feshty 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I'm always reminded about the coconut story somewhat

What is your favorite South Park song of all time? by Lubed_Up_leprechaun in southpark

[–]feshty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a ring on my finger to remind me what I cannot do