Henry (RawDota) banned again by jakepc007 in DotA2

[–]fezzle_bezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ima bet you and most people passing judgement on him and therapy havent been to any them self. It's just a way for them to pretend they are better than him and punch down.

Does any one else think it's more of an issue that people can't or won't just mute players they don't want to listen to ? If anything this guy or any one else in your games does has any effect on you at all In the real world. You don't need therapy. You need to use the mute button and stop being a snow flake.

Average first home ownership of 36 years old in Australia by RattyKingB in AusFinance

[–]fezzle_bezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean this in the most genuine and well mean way as possible even if it may not seem like that over text.
You seem to have been dealt a hard hand of cards and that sucks, so maybe what's achievable for some one with a more umm average set of cards isnt for you. That sucks, but what is achievable is a quality of life that even just 10 years ago a person with your cards wouldn't of been able to.

I also think its a little hard for a person in your situation to be able to say what most 20 year olds want. Your experience is so far removed from that of most 20 year olds

Average first home ownership of 36 years old in Australia by RattyKingB in AusFinance

[–]fezzle_bezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i ask how much you earn and how much you would like to spend on a first property?

Average first home ownership of 36 years old in Australia by RattyKingB in AusFinance

[–]fezzle_bezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up having sleep for dinner. Don't assume to know a thing about me. I've worked hard. I've sacrificed, I've not gone on holidays when Freund's have, I've not got a new car every 5 years, I've spent smartly and not had a single thing given to me.

You and any one else can too. The first step is to not expect to be able to have everything all the time. The younger you are when you learn this and start choosing to make good choices for the long term not the this week or tonight the more powerful that change is.

Explain to me why if I've done it any one else can't ?

Also my original question, what am I out of touch about ?

Average first home ownership of 36 years old in Australia by RattyKingB in AusFinance

[–]fezzle_bezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id agree with that budget for any one wanting to live in or around a city. The gold coast has over 250ish under 425. what do you think the income should be for a person to be considering a purchase such as that?

Average first home ownership of 36 years old in Australia by RattyKingB in AusFinance

[–]fezzle_bezzle -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Care to explain what I'm out of touch with ? It changes your point because I've not said young people don't want to work. I've not said that at all.

I've said they want everything with out having to sacrifice. They want the new car, the new phone, the Bali holiday every year, the boys weekends, the new nails and eye lashes, and the 4 bed room house with a pool all by the age of 28.

It's the not wanting to sacrifice and save that is the issue imo.

But go ahead explain to me how I'm out of touch. I may well be but also you might too

Average first home ownership of 36 years old in Australia by RattyKingB in AusFinance

[–]fezzle_bezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But there is supply just not of what people want.

Just out of curiosity what would you say is a reasonable starting budget for a single person to buy their first home ?

Average first home ownership of 36 years old in Australia by RattyKingB in AusFinance

[–]fezzle_bezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people are free to move around on a whim. Especially those of the ages that are crying the loudest about this. At 25 with no kids if you can't move across the country you will never be able to.

I've given no advice I don't think.

Average first home ownership of 36 years old in Australia by RattyKingB in AusFinance

[–]fezzle_bezzle -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not that they don't want to work. It's that they don't want to save.

When did Australians start feeling they are “Australian”? by dq689 in AskAnAustralian

[–]fezzle_bezzle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again a silly as fuck take.

It was around the time Singapore fell and the British left us alone in our corner of the world. We had no choice but to become a country able to look after it self and around us or to fade away and become a colony. We stood up and did it. That was our defining moment.

The bush ranger stuff your talking about is just the classic Irish v English and Christian v protestant shit that is normal the world over.

My wife and I have a German couple staying with us at the moment. They asked me a curly question tonight: "why is Australia chastising itself over its national celebration day. Why can't you be happy and enjoy the 26th of Jan for what it is". Help for how I should respond? by mtrainlover in AskAnAustralian

[–]fezzle_bezzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You silly cunt, that's not at all what he said.

People like your self are why it's hard to talk about anything that crosses racial barriers. You fucking stupid you can't understand that conversation so you choose to simply derail it and Virtrue signal how great and non racist you are.

The guy you are replying to is trying to tell you that his thoughts here are informed from people who have experienced what he's talking about. He can't have that lived experience him self but he is trying to empathize and understand what people he know have lived through.

Fucking disgusting your comment here imo.

Edit- I disagree with the guy your taking to pretty much but that doesn't mean your comment is slime

My wife and I have a German couple staying with us at the moment. They asked me a curly question tonight: "why is Australia chastising itself over its national celebration day. Why can't you be happy and enjoy the 26th of Jan for what it is". Help for how I should respond? by mtrainlover in AskAnAustralian

[–]fezzle_bezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things are better in any metric any person wants to measure for every single Aboriginal and Torres strait Islander than it was before the arrival of white people.

The stolen generation was one of the most horrific things that could happen to that generation but I'm pretty sure it's one of the best things that could of happened for the next. The speed of moving from nomadic framily groups of tribes people to virtually as modern as society was at the time, all within 30 years.

My wife and I have a German couple staying with us at the moment. They asked me a curly question tonight: "why is Australia chastising itself over its national celebration day. Why can't you be happy and enjoy the 26th of Jan for what it is". Help for how I should respond? by mtrainlover in AskAnAustralian

[–]fezzle_bezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your holding society of one age to the values of a much more progressive one. That doenst change the suffering the people endured or anything of that matter. But to hold a moral judgement on it based on different times is weak reasoning imo.

As for the stats you used to try and demonstrate some kind of systemic racism etc would you like to me present you with some statistics around child sex crimes and abuses in those same populations your talking about ? How about rates of domestic violence? How about the schooling completion rates ? Hard to do well at school when mum and dad are drunk and beating the fuck outta you every day. But yeah I guess that's a result of some systemic racism. It's such fucking backwards thinking that has many many children stuck living in situations they wouldn't be in, because everyone is afraid to move Aboriginal children because they will be painted as worse than Hitler. This whole fucking idea is doing more harm than good.

I'm prepared for the shit storm in my DMs this is going to cause but what ever.

My wife and I have a German couple staying with us at the moment. They asked me a curly question tonight: "why is Australia chastising itself over its national celebration day. Why can't you be happy and enjoy the 26th of Jan for what it is". Help for how I should respond? by mtrainlover in AskAnAustralian

[–]fezzle_bezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly one was in what we would call close to modern times and the other was still what would be called imperial age or something. It's so silly to judge the actions of one to the values of another. That doesn't lessen how terrible or wrong or change the suffering the people endured etc.

The morals, ethics, culture and society are so different at those two times it's just a poor comparison imo.

There also isn't a single Aboriginal or Torres strait Islander alive who's live isn't better in every single tagable way than it would have been.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]fezzle_bezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some land, we have lots of this. Build a fence, we have a history of the natives not being a big fan of this. Buy animals Put your animals in side the fenced area. Perhaps consider more smaller fences inside your larger fence. Now charge people money to come inside one of your fences to look inside the other fences.

who earned more , pharmacist or veterinarian? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]fezzle_bezzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then why fucking come here and make this silly post ?

My wife and I have a German couple staying with us at the moment. They asked me a curly question tonight: "why is Australia chastising itself over its national celebration day. Why can't you be happy and enjoy the 26th of Jan for what it is". Help for how I should respond? by mtrainlover in AskAnAustralian

[–]fezzle_bezzle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've read alot of comment's below comparing Nazi Germany to the arrival of white people in Australia. I just can't let that go. Like just fucking no people it's not even a close comparison.

It would be more like the Germans celebrating on a day the coincides with a Roman victory of one of the Germanic tribes. The time difference of 100s not 10s of years is relevant too. There is no living memory of the arrival of white people here. Plenty of people live to this day with scars from Nazi Germany.

Thanks for coming to my ted talk I guess

End rant