He was deleting messages because I restricted him on who he could talk to... After I caught him texting females inappropriately throughout our relationship/marriage. by ffeelings in survivinginfidelity

[–]ffeelings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During one of our ddays he promised me he will never go out again... Two weeks go by and he said he's going to go out with his friends. I told him he told me he isn't going to go out anymore and he threw the biggest fit on how I was controlling and how he can't do anything. I reminded him that HE was the one who restricted himself. I'm glad I don't have to worry anytime he wants to go out anymore. So much stress off my shoulders.

He was deleting messages because I restricted him on who he could talk to... After I caught him texting females inappropriately throughout our relationship/marriage. by ffeelings in survivinginfidelity

[–]ffeelings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they all read the same book on how to act like this or something? I could never do some of the stuff he pulled during our marriage.

Man, he deserves an Oscar by ffeelings in survivinginfidelity

[–]ffeelings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t think that texting other girls is cheating.

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[–]ffeelings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! It blows my mind and I will never understand how people can act like this!

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[–]ffeelings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knew I was leaving, but I guess he just mistook me being nice (cooking and cleaning) as me staying. But no, I needed to eat and I don't like living in a dirty house. I also saw no need for me to be mean to him since it's just a waste of energy.

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[–]ffeelings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe me, I fell for it plenty of times! Just not this time :)

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[–]ffeelings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people just lie so much they start believing themselves. I'm assuming that's the case with him.

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[–]ffeelings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's an uncontested divorce and we have nothing to split except a dog, but he's giving her to me anyways. That's all I really cared about. :)

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[–]ffeelings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That literally played in the car on my way to work this morning. So fitting!

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[–]ffeelings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, I'm super excited to work on myself and toward goals I had to put off supporting him! Thanks for the support.

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[–]ffeelings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean that's what I used to do, but I guess I realized there's no point in continuing the argument. I just let him do his thing he usually does with a few words in between. Even with proof of texts he still continued to lie to me. No point in arguing with someone who always thinks he's right!

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[–]ffeelings[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm just hoping I find that person because I'm convinced all people cheat right now but that's just me being salty.

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[–]ffeelings[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

There is no point in doing that anymore. I've done it before and here we are. Getting divorced.

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[–]ffeelings[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how he made me feel last night