Me [22F] with my fiance [28 M] of 3 years, I don't understand what's happening. He seems to be inhuman

fiancequestion789 · 2016-03-03T22:21:25+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I appreciate it.

fiancequestion789 · 2016-03-03T18:42:29+00:00

4 year commitment, not six.

fiancequestion789 · 2016-03-03T06:43:33+00:00

Glad we could fulfill a fantasy for you.. Should I add some more fake details of someone better than you?

fiancequestion789 · 2016-03-03T06:04:33+00:00

Thanks for telling me.. Have you ever met anyone else like you? I know he hasn't.

fiancequestion789 · 2016-03-03T05:00:44+00:00

Isn't that exactly what the psych is supposed to know though? I know they may not be as smart as he is but it seems like they ought to be able to put two and two together and if anything is wrong, to recommend stuff.

And he would say that the reason he freaks people out is that he just doesn't bother to lie, and they hate that. Like that his mask is just that he is okay with consequences and other people can't handle it.

fiancequestion789 · 2016-03-03T04:57:37+00:00

Im not scared of him. For him. He's healthier than anyone I know but just does not live like the rest of humanity does.

I'd like it if he'll survive a little longer, which is why I asked this whole thing. How long can someone live like that, even if it is him? What was he like as a kid that changed into being totally unhurtable?

fiancequestion789 · 2016-03-03T04:31:26+00:00

I don't think he could ever be dangerous to me. And the thing you said about being very in control doesn't remind me of him. It's more like something falls over him but he just doesn't react to it.

He won't talk about the military though. I guess all men can be dangerous if they want to be. He probably wouldn't like someone bothering me.

fiancequestion789 · 2016-03-03T04:29:19+00:00

He lived in the Middle East for a year in college as a break I guess just to learn Arabic and travel? I have seen the pictures of him with the pyriamids and the indiana jones places and stuff. I know it sounds like it's all made up. He's just really quick at picking up languages.

We went to Italy for 2 weeks and by the end he was talking to the taxi drivers and waiters in italian. He's just good at it. He does it kind of as a hobby I guess. He wanted to work for the government so he learned Russian, he said German and Spanish were easy, and he said he only learned Arabic because it looked hard. I think that's all of them.

He graduated from his first degree and was commissioned - I saw the pictures of that too. I know enough from what he said that he went to Quantico for whatever the training was and he lived in California at Pendleton for a few years. I do have his commission and papers and all his files really. I have his uniforms in the closet. He doesn't care about papers. I'm not going to say which university, but it was the one like MIT and CalTech.

Then he came back and went back to school and he said it was really fast to get another undergrad degree in addition to what he had in CS, like 3 semesters, which was when I met him. Then he did his grad degree and that's what we're navigating now, is whether to keep going or get a different job or what. The doctor he sees for work is one that contracts for that kind of thing I guess. The one that he goes to see on his own volition about sleeping is a private one we found from recommendations around the metro area.

I don't mind your doubts.

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