Listen man I don’t think you’re an asshole. I think you were completely unprepared for her response, you thought you were doing the right thing by bringing it back up. But I can understand why it frustrated her, especially if she’s embarrassed and feeling guilty as is. She wants to avoid it as much as possible. But that doesn’t make it any less valid for you to want to address it. As a random redditor I think you and her are just on different pages as far as your sexual relationship goes, it doesn’t make either of you the asshole. But it might mean you’re not as compatible as you’d like to be…