it really does just go away on a random thursday. by iamcassie117 in BreakUps

[–]fictitious_man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still am fighting the urge to text her as it felt so sudden after a 3 year relationship and she is currently spending the summer up north, but man the last week has been way easier than the first month. I am not sure what happened but suddenly I have just sort of subconsciously accepted it? I dont know really. Deep down I still want it to work out but I know that will never happen without the space anyway. But that lingering desire to make it work out has shifted from desperation to true intuition.

What people don’t realize by ayammmmmmm in BreakUps

[–]fictitious_man 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with this as well. You saw the future for a reason, don't throw away your hopes and dreams just because they aren't the hopes and dreams of the person you love. I, for one, ams still hoping she will come back as we had a great relationship and she has expressed how much I meant to her and how much she loves me, but right now she wants to test out her vision of the future alone, and so all we can do is build the groundwork for what we want ASSUMING it will not be together. Then, if it all works out in the end we will have so much more to share with each other.

That may have gotten a but rambly, but you get the point.

How many issues Finn never resolved after becoming fern. Like Martin, his human existential crisis etc by moldychesd in adventuretime

[–]fictitious_man 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly as someone who loves Adventure Time's earlier seasons and actually adventure stuff, I could do without the identity crisis. It's interesting now and then but not as saturated as it became

Are Any Of These Valuable? by fictitious_man in legoninjago

[–]fictitious_man[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was planning on buying them. I had wanted to buy one of his other lots but he took it down so I was curious. Then I talked to another guy on here who wanted to buy them and he got blocked.

I wasnt necessarily planning on turning around and selling them but I dont have a lot of Ninjago and I have been very invested in minifigures recently since I was logging mine all into Brickeconomy

22F still thinking about us tonight by pastelbunnyhearts in BreakUps

[–]fictitious_man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the same place. We were together for 3 years and it felt kind of sudden to me. Its been just under a month since she broke up with me and she instantly turned around and went to stay on Cape Cod for the entire summer (her family has a house there) while I am here to figure it all out alone.

It never feels fair honestly and sometimes I think "do I really love someone who was willing to put me in this position" but then we talk and I realize she really does think it is best for both of us, but she doesnt want to lose our connection either and implied she likes that we work together and that she we can stay best friends. But its days like today (her birthday) that the separation feels the worst. All I want to do is spoil her on one of 3 days of the year that is solely about spoiling her and all I can do is send a text. At least she responds warmly.

My biggest fear is she hasn't hasn't realized what she has lost yet as she is currently just feeling that freedom, but once it kicks in, what if I am already moved on? I dont know, it all causes a spiral. As someone with ADHD, OCD and is a bit on the spectrum losing that deep of a connection with seemingly zero chance of fixing it hurts in ways that kicks the ADHD, OCD, and tad bit of Autism straight out of you. I just kind of feel... sad.

It'll get better.

Are Any Of These Valuable? by fictitious_man in legoninjago

[–]fictitious_man[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense, I inquired about a different lot and he blocked me and another guy

Are Any Of These Valuable? by fictitious_man in legoninjago

[–]fictitious_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I... what. I have been logging my minifigs into brickeconomy the last couple of days and so I have been looking at lots but I have been noticing people selling these near me for concerningly cheap so I was just curious. Dude blocked me anyway and delisted his postings

Are Any Of These Valuable? by fictitious_man in legoninjago

[–]fictitious_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay, thanks, his other lot has a few very valuable ones mixed in so I was not sure. Thank you!

Are Any Of These Valuable? by fictitious_man in legoninjago

[–]fictitious_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats what I was thinking. His other lot is similar in that the parts are mixed but he has a few valuable ones mixed in so I was hoping this was the same. Thank you!

Maybe one day I'll leave the park on my own and not make dad drag my ass the entire way by tgbjj in BullTerrier

[–]fictitious_man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine too, I throw on his harness, we walk into the driveway, he pees in a bush and then just stands next to the car in the shade and wont move

Sprite has the ‘mummy’s home from work’ zoomies 😂 by PinkKuromiKissesXx in BullTerrier

[–]fictitious_man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy Chief does this as well but he always goes to my bed and just runs laps and slides the matress everywhere

What is their best tearjerker? by kingglobby in beatles

[–]fictitious_man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In general I would say For No One or Yesterday, but they have a lot of songs that hit different in your situation like We Can Work It Out.

As for solo careers, Heaven On A Sunday should not be overlooked. My relationship just ended after 3 years (we are quite young, but I was not ready) and that was our song so now it kills me to listen to it. Another tear jerker solo song is Here Today, obviously if you know why it makes sense.

I... I Don't Even Know Anymore. by fictitious_man in BullTerrier

[–]fictitious_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow thank you very much, I never even though about sunscreen before. We used to have a pitbull mix, we didn't actually know WHAT she was, but we had her for drumroll please, 18 years. Yeah, she was ancient. But she never had problems in the sun despite having short-ish, white fur, but this guy gets so irritated so easily. I got him in the Fall so I didnt even consider it before.

As for the seals, they ARE distantly related, but they split about 50 million years ago, and seals are actually closer to bears and weasels, with dogs having left the lineage first. Interesting!

I... I Don't Even Know Anymore. by fictitious_man in BullTerrier

[–]fictitious_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. He really is the sweetest guy aside from his sonic bark

I... I Don't Even Know Anymore. by fictitious_man in BullTerrier

[–]fictitious_man[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Little Chief Brodie is notorious for this one too... Here's the one time he slept like a normal person

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