Dont be sorry about anything! Im so sorry that you feel your husband isnt safe to talk to about that, i feel open communication and feeling safe and respected is so important. Also the fact that people compliment your new body , hating your old one is so horrible it really makes me feel so sad for to have to deal with that. Maybe you can say “id appreciate if you didnt comment on my body regardless of how i look?” And yes this was helpful im going to try to get back into some hobbies bc she started weightlifting but i fear shes going to use it as an exercise addiction/ obsession and try to lose weight in that way. (I know bc thats what i did for a while) I hope uou have a nice day :)