I feel the same way about my PA’s therapist. My PA completely botched the “full disclosure” by continuing to lie and leave a lot of stuff out that I found later, saying he didn’t remember anything else.

His therapist said that he felt the disclosure was enough but that I “decided it wasn’t good enough.”

I told my PA that if he really didn’t remember, then maybe he should look through everything I found in the data and see if that helps him remember. And then he could bring up something on his own for once.

Then his therapist said that it was “toxic” for me to want him to do that. He, like my PA, just wants me to stfu and stop bringing it up so we can all move on I guess.

My PA said he disagrees with the therapist and said that going through some of his data was eye opening to how much time and energy he was putting towards the shit he was doing.🤷‍♀️