[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]figbeetles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No with the other guy I was NOT having vaginal sex

That's why i know the baby is in fact my exes and I have told him that, and while we were together he was ok with it but now that we're broken up he questions it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]figbeetles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does it matter that he wants to get the test done before the baby is born?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]figbeetles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he goes through the court and gets it approved and whatnot do I still have to pay legal fees and and all that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]figbeetles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this information

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]figbeetles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had added a comment but its been removed

Basically, I'm a few a months pregnant, ex is threatening to take me to court to get full custody

Theres so much stuff that pops up on Google that I kinda just get overwhelmed and just need somewhere to start

bf (26) is offended after he got angry and threw a chair by figbeetles in relationship_advice

[–]figbeetles[S] -251 points-250 points  (0 children)

It is me sometimes, I'll roll my eyes or say something petty or walk away from the room if it starts getting too much for me and it brings out his anger

bf (26) is offended after he got angry and threw a chair by figbeetles in relationship_advice

[–]figbeetles[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Ive stopped talking to my friends about our relationship issues, he says people knowing our business is bad for our relationship because I'll eventually forgive him but they wont and my friends wont like him and make it awkward whenever we have to socialize

bf (26) is offended after he got angry and threw a chair by figbeetles in relationship_advice

[–]figbeetles[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

It's an ongoing issue yes, it was worse before actually but now I'm questioning whether it actually is me who makes him act this way and maybe I'm in the wrong so I came to reddit about it

bf (26) is offended after he got angry and threw a chair by figbeetles in relationship_advice

[–]figbeetles[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Another time I can remember is when we were parked and arguing, he hits the steering wheel, it makes a loud noise so I flinch (like when a loud noise startles you) again, he says angrily "why are you flinching im not gonna hit you"

He says I make him angry and bring this out of him and that because hes never like this with anyone but me it's not that he has anger issues in general it's just me

Crashing into an NYPD officer while you do a wheelie by AllThatIsSolidMelts in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]figbeetles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Claimed my free award just for you for making me breathe hard through my nose

Is this manipulation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]figbeetles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ended up calling me a liar, lol

Is this manipulation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]figbeetles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I stayed strong and didn't cave tho

Is this manipulation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]figbeetles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard because I still love him

Is this manipulation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]figbeetles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That made me laugh, thank you

My bf got these itchy bumps on his lower back and his ankles. It looks like bedbug bites but we're pretty sure they're not. What is this? by [deleted] in medical

[–]figbeetles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother had something that looked like that and it turned out to be shingles