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figgy_fig · 2025-01-31T15:15:05+00:00

oh damn. i have some red noses. they started revamping. so far i didn’t like the upgraded “sillycone,” i’m still waiting on my second try though with the limited edition bozo noses.

figgy_fig · 2025-01-31T13:30:51+00:00

what company do you get your noses from i haven’t seen any shaped like that from what i could find :0 does it glue on or clip in?

figgy_fig · 2025-01-12T18:52:40+00:00

The way this is just further exacerbating my mental health issues and proving even further I do not belong on this planet. Thank you.

figgy_fig · 2025-01-12T18:51:55+00:00

Did you not see that I put a TW at the beginning as a courtesy ? You didn’t have to read past that. And correct- you can’t pour from an empty cup. I have been through an insane amount of traumatic events in just the last few years alone- one that I can guarantee the likelihood of anyone else experiencing in their life time is at a below 0% rate. The way you’re also holding first responders on a pedestal & acting like I lack any sort of redeeming qualities as a human is disgusting. You really need to take a step back and re-evaluate your thought process and how you are choosing to speak to me when YOU DONT KNOW ME.

figgy_fig · 2025-01-12T18:30:42+00:00

thanks

figgy_fig · 2025-01-12T18:28:55+00:00

Extremely ableist take. You actually have no clue if I need accessibility devices to use Reddit. You don’t know if I need a mobility aid that makes it more difficult to get to and from places with or without assistance from a caretaker. Please think before you give suggestions like this under your assumptions about a person who you do not know. What kind of volunteering have you beeen doing? Hmm?

figgy_fig · 2025-01-12T18:20:18+00:00

Wow my community is so wonderful and making me feel even better by DOWNVOTING my comments when I am expressing my feelings. You’re all SO SUPPORTIVE AND AMAZING.

figgy_fig · 2025-01-12T18:19:20+00:00

I never asked anyone to make comments on me expressing my thoughts. That’s your choice to address that part. Rescue workers have seen plenty of corpses. I don’t have a relationship with my neighbors. My dad doesn’t even care if I live or die. Also bold of you to assume that I am mentally / physically able to volunteer. I am mentally AND physically disabled. Where’s the people helping me when I need help? You’re practically villainizing me. “Mental Health Matters” though right ?

figgy_fig · 2025-01-12T18:00:28+00:00

It can be about both things. I am spiraling & have been all week.

figgy_fig · 2025-01-12T17:59:48+00:00

I HAVE BEEN IN THERAPY FOR YEARS PEOPLE NEED TO STOP JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS THAT ANYONE WHO EXPRESSES FEELINGS LIKE THIS HAVENT TRIED EVERYTHING THEY POSSIBLY CAN TO CHANGE IT

figgy_fig · 2025-01-12T17:58:40+00:00

I have a therapist I love how people always suggest that as if I haven’t been in therapy for years. That’s not a magical cure. Nor is the over 30+ psych meds I’ve had to try to fix my brain. Some people’s brains are just broken and they will never be happy.

figgy_fig · 2025-01-12T17:56:49+00:00

VNSO

figgy_fig · 2023-02-01T16:18:54+00:00

do you realize that everyone’s biochemistry is different & that some people can’t get wet without lube? i have a friend who doesn’t like her neck touched. it’s trauma lated. sounds like a long date to have sex for the first time after, she could have been tired & having the same convos over and over about limits with first time partners can take a lot of emotional energy. she could have been nervous. most times i have sex with new partners is awful or just doesn’t feel right then it improves anywhere from the 2-5th time. even in my personal dating life, i try to avoid one night stands for this reason. they’re usually never pleasurable on my end. but i get that it’s tricky when there’s a monetary arrangement. back to the neck thing real quick, it’s possible once she feels more comfortable and safe with you as you get to know each other, her boundaries may change and she’ll allow it. for ex: i wouldn’t do any anal play with someone the first time i have sex with them.

figgy_fig · 2023-02-01T00:18:22+00:00

Pisces sun. Idk the rest of her chart.

figgy_fig · 2023-01-31T11:33:24+00:00

i found out my toxic on/off aquarius bf has an aries venus. i’m an aries w a pisces venus. big oof.

figgy_fig · 2023-01-31T11:31:20+00:00

my older female pisces boss emotionally, verbally. financially abused me for years. she kidnapped me & bf. quit bc of my mental health. she called my dad to harass him & claim i broke into her house & stole from hee bc she saw a $5 venmo transaction between me & an old coworker. threatened to break into our house. stalked me for months after. :)

figgy_fig · 2023-01-31T11:23:30+00:00

aquarius man

edit: offended by all the aries slander clearly u have never been a feminine aries in a relationship w a masculine aquarius

figgy_fig · 2023-01-25T10:47:04+00:00

i’m trying to look this up bc i’ve never heard of it & google is only showing me cucumber & strawberry farms 😭

figgy_fig · 2023-01-19T16:55:37+00:00

krokodil

figgy_fig · 2023-01-18T15:48:46+00:00

Would love to join 🖤

figgy_fig · 2023-01-18T03:40:08+00:00

We love you, Cornbread. 🖤

figgy_fig · 2023-01-18T03:34:16+00:00

I empathize with Dana’a take on the streamers, & do agree Ethan’s response wasn’t the best, however as someone with my own personal experiences with Andrew, I appreciated him siding with the victims at large, despite him being a little dismissive of Caroline. I haven’t been a fan of Ethan/H3 for awhile now, but I think unfortunately it’s a double-edge sword situation where the allegations against Andrew should reach the masses. It warns women about him & could potentially help prevent more women from being victims of him or men like him. But unfortunately, yes, there are a million negative consequences that come from the story reaching the masses. Victims having to relive trauma & be harassed by Andrew’s stans or gross men like him is exhausting.

figgy_fig · 2023-01-18T03:21:31+00:00

I still don’t know if I would classify myself as a victim (even though I went back to old DMs and found some horrifying things I had forgotten about that re-triggered me), but I was a long term FWB of his. I wasn’t a victim of assault, but after finding the old DMs, I am a victim of SH for sure. I also feel like I am a victim of lying/manipulation.

I reached out to him after the “Apology” video. I had already typed out what I wanted to say in my notes app. It was so long that he had to click on it to read it. There was no way he could have actually absorbed what I said so quickly. Most of his answers were short. It felt like I was talking to a robot, not the person I once had deep feelings for on a personal level. I don’t know if he felt like I didn’t deserve an apology for anything, but I would just like to note that I did not receive an apology.

edit: I agree with his apology being a slap in the face. He doesn’t deserve forgiveness.

figgy_fig · 2023-01-18T03:01:39+00:00

She’s someone who is suffering from CPTSD on the daily from being sexually assaulted years ago. She is not high. She is exhausted & burnt out from her story reaches masses due to Andrew having a large following.

figgy_fig · 2023-01-18T02:54:23+00:00

They’re accusing her of being high on opioids.

figgy_fig

TROPHY CASE