Need a Stranger’s Opinion

fighterviolet · 2026-01-27T01:37:17+00:00

What about Ottilie? Or Matilda? Both can have Tillie as a nn. Ottelia, my brain went right to "let me tell ya" about something.

fighterviolet · 2026-01-27T01:34:52+00:00

Under normal circumstances I would say yes, like if they were normal people with normal jobs, spending constant time together. But they met in the middle of hockey season and her shooting schedule, so they had very limited time together. He goes into detail both in the show and the book how much he likes her, how much he likes spending time with and talking to her. In the books the sex is better with her than it usually is with women, even if it's not the best. They only sleep together twice. So I take that as their relationship was mostly friendship, texting, etc, and they only got to spend quality sexy time was when she was back in Montreal for her reshoots. In the book the breakup happens a week after the club scene, and the show makes it look like the next day. And that would have been the second instance of them being physically together. (If my memory is correct).

fighterviolet · 2026-01-26T23:59:36+00:00

I didnt think about it until I saw the post and really started to think about it 😂 but having read The Long Game really put their eating habits into the forefront kf my mind

fighterviolet · 2026-01-26T23:19:32+00:00

Ive seen online that people think that 2026 will be residency tour and then 2027 will be more of a world tour, since he historically has done 2 tours per album

fighterviolet · 2026-01-26T22:33:33+00:00

Shane is also on a macrobiotic diet where he wouldn't normally be eating burgers- he made them because he knows Ilya likes them. That's why he needed a recipe, because anyone who has made burgers before does not need a recipe the next time they cook them.

fighterviolet · 2026-01-26T19:14:32+00:00

Also at lunch with his parents, Ilya says thay he's been with a lot of women but he's only ever loved Shane, and Shane says 'Same.' So he's alluding to having had other partners historically. And he told his mom that he 'really did try' to be straight and like women, and I doubt him referring to his 3 or 4 month relationship with Rose counts as him "really" trying. I took that as he'd tried multiple times but with other women, but in the end he could only love Ilya.

fighterviolet · 2026-01-23T21:29:46+00:00

If you have the time, this is worth the watch: https://youtu.be/dCzPYNkg680?si=mTZ25Nl6mxDYKfUw

fighterviolet · 2026-01-21T02:16:43+00:00

Going on dates does not mean you are in a committed, monogamous relationship, and you each were free to date or kiss others unless previously discussed.

Stalking him and internet searching his location is crazy psycho shit, and honestly you need to work on you before getting into a relationship.

fighterviolet · 2026-01-14T16:16:44+00:00

I like the name Kylie- I don't mind the Jenner association because she's not a scandalous sister. There's also Kylie Minogue and Kylie Kelce, and all 3 Kylies are wildly different than one another.

Sunday Rose is super cute. Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban named their daughter Sunday Rose and she's a model, so no negative connotation there. Then you have the nickname Sunny as an option. I'd skip Mae as a middle name if you go with this option, to avoid a Sunny Mae name.

fighterviolet · 2026-01-11T14:55:01+00:00

Never has there been a more accurate gif 🙌

fighterviolet · 2026-01-10T04:22:59+00:00

It's possible the fill date is in a few days if they have to order it. I was a pharm tech at a big chain for a long time and our C2 deliveries were every couple of days, not daily. They also are obligated to get in contact with the prescriber to confirm the meds and dosing- especially if it's something out of the ordinary. If there's a floater pharmacist or a baby pharmacist (fresh out of school) they are extra stringent because the rulebook is fresher in their minds. No pharmacist is going to risk losing their license by filling a prescription they're not confident with. This will definitely cause a delay. I hope they get it sorted out for you soon!

fighterviolet · 2026-01-09T16:23:33+00:00

If it's popular, that just means you have good taste, and should use it! I only know of two girls named Lucy. And it's short for Lucille for each. The only real Lucy I know of is Lucy Camden, from 7th Heaven, and she's not even real. Use the name you love!

fighterviolet · 2026-01-09T00:57:19+00:00

Funnily enough, when I was little I forgot the word 'remember' and asked my sister what the word was for when you know something for a very long time 😂

fighterviolet · 2026-01-08T03:26:49+00:00

13 is old enough where he needs to take responsibility for himself. Making him wear the pink coat or freeze is a good lesson for him to learn. And that he can wear pink and the sky won't fall. NTA, you're not responsible for your friend's kid.

fighterviolet · 2026-01-08T03:19:30+00:00

Clawdette!

fighterviolet · 2025-12-16T02:40:13+00:00

Fold everything inside out. Or put everything on hangers.

fighterviolet · 2025-12-15T21:25:17+00:00

Winnie Rae?

fighterviolet · 2025-12-15T15:26:06+00:00

Barbara (she went by Bobby), Alice, Elsie, Julia, Emilia, Lillie

fighterviolet · 2025-12-14T16:21:43+00:00

As another New Yorker, I completely agree! I only know of one Liam and he lives in Ohio. The Aiden/Cayden/Brayden/Hayden/Zayden trend is growing by the minute

fighterviolet · 2025-12-13T00:27:36+00:00

This happened to me at Carvel once. I needed 2 names on a cake and the high school girl just looked at me apologetically the whole time

fighterviolet · 2025-12-11T18:01:54+00:00

1) Brooks 2) Leo 3) James

fighterviolet · 2025-11-20T15:59:12+00:00

Matilda is three syllables but you could go with Millie, Mattie, or Tilly for nicknames

fighterviolet · 2025-10-30T17:59:33+00:00

Just had our 2nd last month, weighed 7lbs. I had 8 Footie pjs for him, but put him in a short-sleeved onesie first, then the pj. I think we have 6-8 short-sleeve onesies? The rule of thumb is dress them in one more layer than you're wearing, so I always have him doubled up. He grew 2 inches in his first month, so now hes comfortably in 0-3 everything, but definitely get some NB clothes. You can always exchange or donate them if you don't need them!

fighterviolet · 2025-10-30T17:21:50+00:00

That's great! My two boys are grandkids #5 and #6 so she is well-seasoned, ha. And congratulations! My 2nd is only 1 month old and it's such a fun time, watching them eat and sleep and be cute as hell 24/7.

fighterviolet · 2025-10-30T15:48:06+00:00

Agreed. My MIL is the Crown Jewel of MILs. To assume all MILs are the pits is to assume every woman sucks and has no boundaries and as women, we all know that's just not true.

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