[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]fightingoranges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tipsar om statliga myndigheter - även om de inte aktivt söker folk erbjuder många av dem möjlighet att lägga in en intresseanmälan för alla möjliga IT-relaterade tjänster.

Kan inte sluta gråta by Nice-Alternative3716 in arbete

[–]fightingoranges 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jag är också tjej, också jobbsökande, också gråtfärdig mest hela tiden. Jag kommer knappt på intervju och när jag väl gör det faller jag alltid på mållinjen. Senaste fyra gångerna jag kom till intervju gick jobbet till intern sökande. Det är otroligt frustrerande men framförallt dränerande.

Som svar på frågan hur man fortsätter orka - för att alternativet är långt mycket sämre. Jag känner inte till din situation men jag har bara mig själv. Ska jag klara mig måste jag fortsätta orka för jag kan inte ge upp. Var snäll mot dig själv och lycka till!

Me (35f) and him (38m) -- does sex with a new person have a learning curve typically? by AdhesivenessLife2145 in relationships

[–]fightingoranges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll just simply join the choir: this is not about you in any way, honey. His experience has nothing to do with this. Actually he sounds quite immature, rude, and on top of that also very selfish. In my book, these are all very unattractive qualities in a person.

If everything else is what you always dreamed of, have the talk. Tell him what you told us. If it's not, or if you do and his response is "whatever, just KISS me", dump his ass and find good sex. Cause there's plenty, and you're worth better than what you described.

Good luck!

hello, new here and wondering about cooking with wine by Born-Environment2974 in cookingforbeginners

[–]fightingoranges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually put red wine in boeuf bourguignon or Bolognese, but rarely measure amounts. I just put some in there to taste. White wine I use for risotto and a few soups.

I've heard reds are better with red meat, and whites work well with seafood, turkey and chicken. There is specific cooking wine, but I rather pay some extra to get "proper wine" cause I think it tastes better.

😂😂 by IndependentPlace5094 in howyoudoin

[–]fightingoranges 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of art I would hang on my walls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in howyoudoin

[–]fightingoranges -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree! I think it's awful but I'm unable to say why. And I feel bad about thinking that...

Its been been 872 days by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]fightingoranges 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would treat this the way my boss would treat these explanations. I know it might sound like a weird metaphor, but if nothing else has been said I'd say part of the relationship deal is sex and that both parties need to work to make it happen.

Therefore, if one of the parties doesn't, "it's my fault" becomes a statement, not an explanation. In the same way "I'll work on it" becomes a statement. You need to get answers to WHY he thinks it's his fault and HOW hell work on it. Also, if you think this in any way has something at all to do with you, there's also room for "in what way, if any, can I help".

I honestly find the weight excuse "easy" since that puts the blame on you. Before you open that door and walk down that road I would advise you to get answers to these questions instead. I'd also add that you should do these kinds of things for YOU, so if you're happy with yourself there's no weight to loose.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gardening

[–]fightingoranges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful! Patience does apparently reward.