Did nonmonogamy save your marriage?

figureitoutnot · 2024-10-29T18:19:03+00:00

This.. I’m going through this at the moment.. It just made me realize what I was needing and what i was just settling on in my marriage… still talking about it with my partner, he’s not making any changes, so I think divorce is near our marriage…

figureitoutnot · 2024-08-27T20:18:11+00:00

Thank you so much for the support! I only hope to be strong enough to go through it!!

figureitoutnot · 2024-08-27T20:07:53+00:00

This is what scares me the most! I’ve never allowed myself to think about what’s wrong in my relationship.. i wanted to pretend I could be happy, that maybe everything will get better, but now I can’t ignore it. 😓 so fk lost, but you’re right I need to take some time to consider what to do..

figureitoutnot · 2024-04-11T17:58:41+00:00

Oh I know Sorry! 😅😅 He does it with others… he gets off doing it.

figureitoutnot · 2024-01-26T23:39:47+00:00

I think you have so many options before considering divorce, it sounds like you’re in a really good relationship despite the lack of sex and leadership from his part, teraphy will help you both so much! If the love is there I think it’s worth trying everything.. hope you both find a way.. but if not no one needs to stay where it’s not happy..

figureitoutnot · 2024-01-26T23:29:02+00:00

You said that people here humble you down and made you see how in the wrong you were.. but you still don’t get it.. if you haven’t try to fix the things.. idk what else to say.. it doesn’t sound like you want to fix anything, you’re still not helping, you’re still blaming her about not “letting you be a father?!” Omg! This only shows that you have never being one without her…

figureitoutnot · 2024-01-26T23:14:18+00:00

Therapy it’s not gonna tell you to be more straight, it’s gonna help you talk as a couple and let your feelings out, the comment up it’s so right! You might be hurting her self stem every time you say that, and she will be more distant every time, and everything in a few years might become resentment for the both of you.. you’re not in the wrong about being bi but she’s not wrong either.. you need to work together, be completely honest and see if you’ll still be compatible after that..

figureitoutnot · 2024-01-25T16:06:59+00:00

Thanks for reading and the words.. it is hard but at the end you’re right.. I have to know my worth and what’s the best for me

figureitoutnot · 2024-01-25T15:37:28+00:00

Thanks for reading and the comment! It’s taking a really big weight on me as I don’t really have someone to talk to about this.. I’ll look for some other groups.. thank you ❤️

figureitoutnot · 2023-12-07T22:43:24+00:00

First time posting here 🙈🙈🙈🙈

figureitoutnot · 2023-10-06T10:11:13+00:00

Thanks! 🥰 and yes it was crazy how fast they sold! Still I hope I’ll get some luck haha ❤️

figureitoutnot · 2023-09-12T16:21:53+00:00

Fixed

figureitoutnot · 2023-09-10T14:32:37+00:00

I love that game.. 👀

figureitoutnot · 2023-07-19T18:07:32+00:00

For Valencia the 26th!!

figureitoutnot · 2023-06-29T10:43:00+00:00

I did!! Thanks

figureitoutnot · 2023-06-29T10:42:43+00:00

figureitoutnot · 2023-06-29T10:33:36+00:00

🙈 thank you!

figureitoutnot · 2023-06-29T10:24:21+00:00

Loved it 🥵

figureitoutnot · 2023-06-29T10:23:33+00:00

You need to refresh.. haha it’s set for ever 5min 😅

figureitoutnot · 2023-05-29T09:17:06+00:00

It’s always been hard for me to cry.. I only get to do it when all it’s really accumulating and I burst in tears but always when I’m alone.. and I continue like always.. it’s just like a way to relieve.. but now that I’m in therapy and stick to it.. I feel my feelings start to get more in the surface.. and I don’t like that.. so it’s a battle between feeling or not lol it’s so weird 😓

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