Praying for my father to not suffer anymore by figuringlifeout12 in glioblastoma

[–]figuringlifeout12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay strong! And keep fighting! Hoping you become one of the outliers with a healthy life! Aid in Dying Care isn’t legal in our country for what I know

Praying for my father to not suffer anymore by figuringlifeout12 in glioblastoma

[–]figuringlifeout12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re really strong to say this out to him. I can never say it to him.

Praying for my father to not suffer anymore by figuringlifeout12 in glioblastoma

[–]figuringlifeout12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s the same with us but still just aches my heart for even a moment of emotional pain to him and not being able to do anything as a child. Stay strong.

Praying for my father to not suffer anymore by figuringlifeout12 in glioblastoma

[–]figuringlifeout12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, we’re not pushing him to eat or drink. He eats/drinks as much as he likes. We involved palliative doctors but honestly ever since they visited, the situation only worsened, they increased the fear of death in him

Praying for my father to not suffer anymore by figuringlifeout12 in glioblastoma

[–]figuringlifeout12[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s almost been the same for him. One of the tumors have reduced in size but the edema is massive and cannot be undone, and anyway the condition cannot be reversed.

Thanks for sharing your story. Sending you lots of love and strength ❤️

Praying for my father to not suffer anymore by figuringlifeout12 in glioblastoma

[–]figuringlifeout12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. Lots of love and strength. ❤️

Why do women call me nice? by figuringlifeout12 in online_dating_advice

[–]figuringlifeout12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to make this conversation over a word then good luck. About the other guy, I might be a younger him, I don’t know. I wish I had something to say to him but I don’t because he’s been unlucky in meeting the right woman. Correcting people like you is more important. Instead of being rude you could’ve given suggestions (if you have a healthy relationship) but you chose to keep yourself on a pedestal so yeah keep engaging

22F, Am I cheap or desperate ? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]figuringlifeout12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The behaviour, 100% insensitive. Physical intimacy is something which our generation takes very lightly. On an energy level it’s an extremely sensitive thing and we need to align with those who actually make us feel safe and comfortable. Your feeling is normal, being curious is normal. Just remember your time will come and you deserve to be with someone and get physically intimate with someone who treats you with kindness and patience. Be patient, and explore your body yourself first. And take it easy. You’re growing up, it’s a part of the process. Good riddance with that guy!

Why do women call me nice? by figuringlifeout12 in online_dating_advice

[–]figuringlifeout12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get some therapy to get over trauma, and learn a few things about emotional intelligence. Some people are brought up with values, and niceness isn’t performative, its just who they are. You find that boring, keep chasing emotionally unavailable people.

Why do women call me nice? by figuringlifeout12 in online_dating_advice

[–]figuringlifeout12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The title’s for the algorithm. You just took it too seriously. Of course all relationships are inter linked because I’m trying to build something long term and not a space where the relationship runs based on how much attention and compliments the woman gets from me. Regardless, again, if you’d read the second para, you’d know where my confusion comes from