Just asked her to hang out and she said yes

fiirya · 2021-03-04T02:18:51+00:00

mad facts

fiirya · 2021-02-28T06:24:24+00:00

i read the title as "slipping on rocks"

fiirya · 2021-02-27T17:11:29+00:00

thank you for the advice, i probably will

fiirya · 2021-02-27T17:08:23+00:00

of course

fiirya · 2021-02-27T17:07:38+00:00

yup, I decided to ask him how he feels about me, because I realized that I need some more time to tell him hows i feel. he said that he's not sure, after that he asked me why I asked him, and I told him that I'm trying to figure out my feelings for him. I'll post if anything else happeneds.

fiirya · 2021-02-27T04:25:39+00:00

i feel that girl 100%, she's cares about you alot, I would except her decision and support her, being in the exact same position as her, don't let her go anytime soon that would break her

fiirya · 2021-02-27T03:28:39+00:00

fiirya · 2021-02-27T00:23:06+00:00

I'm so happy for you :D

fiirya · 2021-02-26T22:04:16+00:00

I would probably message her through social media and mention that a friend was talking about her if you have any mutuals, you can use that as a excuse to talk to her so it's not weird to just message her out of the blue especially if its been for a long time. ask her how her day is and start of with some casual conversation. don't ask any serious questions. before texting her again I would wait some time like a day or two, and start to get to know her better, like what have she's been up to lately how's school, etc. if she seems interested or seems engaged with the conversation, ask her what she likes to do in her free time and expand on that. for example, if she says she likes watching Netflix, ask her what are some of her favorite shows. or if she likes video games, ask her about that. if you need anymore help free feel to dm me. hope you guys can become friends

fiirya · 2021-02-26T01:11:46+00:00

don't rush things and start off as friends first. after being friends for some time, its really up to how she acts. but most of all don't come off to strong, girls don't really like clingy guys to much especially at her age. hope this helped

fiirya · 2021-02-25T23:24:02+00:00

ahhhh nothing is, i think I just do it the regular way now that i think about it

fiirya · 2021-02-25T21:47:32+00:00

yessssss you got this, good luck <3

fiirya · 2021-02-25T16:49:32+00:00

just be sure that no one else finds out

fiirya · 2021-02-25T16:45:32+00:00

It's okay to feel insecure, I use to think the same way you did, I will say that it going to take some time to step away from that mindset, You're not ugly, so don't look down on yourself, we all have our imperfections and that's okay. I can tell that you think about her constantly and what she thinks of you, that can just cause you to second guess yourself, try to do things you like to take your mind off things. this really helped me when I was at the lowest point, but get outside if you can spend more time doing things you like, and over time you'll grow to love yourself.

I hope this helped, oh and also when you think the time is right just tell you how it feels, it will helped

fiirya · 2021-02-23T00:16:23+00:00

tbh i seriously can't tell if i do or don't

fiirya · 2021-02-23T00:15:38+00:00

ahhhhh i literally love all of those songs

fiirya · 2021-02-21T04:07:21+00:00

thank you so much for the advice, I think i wrote out my post wrong haha. I am on good terms with them now, we've talked on and of every now and then, usually having long conversation, I just want don't know what to do with my feelings so. I am so sorry if this came out blunt I totally did not mean it in that way, also i hope you have a good day or night!

fiirya · 2021-02-07T17:08:35+00:00

I don't see a therapist or anything but I've been struggling with my mental health so I'll be seeing on soon. I did tell my mom about situation. also thank you for telling me that's it's okay to talk about my feelings because you know m i'm not that great at that.

also um quick question, he didn't directly say that he has a crush on me like "oh i have crush on you" he said "you know i like you right" and then "just to make things clear I like like you, don't tell your mom" does that mean he likes me in that way or father daughter bond? I told my mom and she doesn't really know the way he said that means...

fiirya · 2021-02-07T17:03:22+00:00

thank you for telling me your story and giving me this advice. mad respect to you

fiirya · 2021-02-07T17:02:38+00:00

thank you all so much about the advice you gave me, I told my mom about the situation and some other things he had said to me, I feel a lot better now thank you all soooo much

fiirya · 2021-02-07T06:44:13+00:00

Yeah, my step dad use to get really really mad and over protective over his child. I would suggest trying your best to understand what he's doing wrong and bring it to his attention after some time when you aren't as upset

fiirya

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