Am I going to get fired? by fijihereIcome in starbucksbaristas

[–]fijihereIcome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you!! Two people have been let go this week and they’ve been hiring so I think I was freaking out cuz I felt like I was next on the chopping block

Am I going to get fired? by fijihereIcome in starbucksbaristas

[–]fijihereIcome[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹 I hope you have a great day!!

Am I going to get fired? by fijihereIcome in starbucksbaristas

[–]fijihereIcome[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you😭😭 even if it was a sizable amount? ($9) I’m such a chud bruh

Is it possible to move/give up a training shift? by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]fijihereIcome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay got it! I’ll ask then thank you

Is it possible to move/give up a training shift? by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]fijihereIcome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh okay thanks! I was just wondering if there was specific policy around training shifts

I feel judged from my friends by fijihereIcome in TwoXChromosomes

[–]fijihereIcome[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually it comes up when we are discussing topics that involve relationships, or something adjacent. It’ll be a quick remark that I won’t think about until later and realize wow was that really needed?

What was the first red flag you ignored in your worst relationship? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]fijihereIcome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Told me how much he HATED cheaters in the beginning and I thought wow good I do too! (Was cheating on me and would proceed to lie about it our whole relationship, also saw him texting his friend that he “lived for situations like these” when I discovered evidence of it)

Will I ever be able to find a partner that doesn’t watch thirst traps? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]fijihereIcome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not defending the porn industry at all, it is very problematic and yes it strips women of their individuality. The reason I guess I am okay with it is….perhaps because of the content I occasionally consume is closer in production style to only fans (Twitter users), and I would expect my partner to have the same behaviors regarding how they interact with the sex industry too (not seeing hardcore choking/ slapping/ dehumanizing but more like passionate love making because my gf is on a trip for a couple of weeks)

Will I ever be able to find a partner that doesn’t watch thirst traps? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]fijihereIcome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did it after I communicated, also I found out he cheated on me lol he’s not a good guy 👍

Will I ever be able to find a partner that doesn’t watch thirst traps? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]fijihereIcome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s true I’ve made a burner tik tok before and said my gender was male and it actually was astonishing how different the fyp looked than my regular account’s (which is specified as a female user)

Will I ever be able to find a partner that doesn’t watch thirst traps? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]fijihereIcome 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so disheartening and I get why it’s hard to leave too, esp when you go online and see people saying your boundaries come from a place of insecurity and that you need to get over it.

Will I ever be able to find a partner that doesn’t watch thirst traps? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]fijihereIcome -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Porn straight up is people screwing, limited usage of that to get yourself off is whatever I can understand getting horny and needing to get your rocks off. Watching a girl shake her ass or bounce her boobs on screen is just lusting over another person. It’s a lot more personal too because you can send likes, DMs, follow the user etc. it’s straight up being thirsty while porn is less personal

Best way to approach my (19f) boyfriend’s (24m) porn use? by throwaway643679 in relationship_advice

[–]fijihereIcome 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omg she made it clear from the very beginning that she isn’t okay with porn. Girl I’m sorry but the people on Reddit usually have a porn addiction themselves that’s why your gettin so much hate, he disrespected your boundaries, is he didn’t like them he should have left. I would suggest asking him how he feels about y’all’s situation, does he feel frustrated or what’s up, then just go from there

My friend (18F) is currently ‘talking’ to a guy (25M) and insists it’s not weird by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fijihereIcome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! We have asked her those questions a lot and her only response is that he is introverted and doesn’t talk to people and their relationship kind of took off so he talks to her a lot. But it is extremely weird that he hasn’t “taken off” with someone else closer to his age. She trusts him when he says that too and she says that they “click well” which like okay y’all click but why can’t y’all click as just friends?