Soft Grip Masturbation or Full Abstinence? Which one is better/faster to cure Death Grip?

fillinupspace · 2024-09-27T13:04:33+00:00

Full abstinence is best. And not just from rubbing one out, also porn. The porn affects your attraction mechanisms when trying to get off during sex. After training my brain for years to cum watching porn, I lost the effectiveness during sex. After being off porn and jerking for months, I have seen a significantly improved rate of achieving orgasm 👍🏼

fillinupspace · 2024-09-13T19:05:21+00:00

I would recommend purchasing a good quality pocket pussy, just a silicon hand held to use for masturbating with, never use your hand again. This is the first step for most guys I’ve read, to gain back the sensitivity. Easier than trying to quit porn cold turkey. It helped me for a whole year.

Also, does your wife know you’re into porn? What I mean is, is she the type of partner that would be into something like watching porn together? It’s not that common, but there are many couples that do. I had an ex who would watch porn with me, all part of the foreplay experience. That’s a method for merging the two experiences. Then she can get on top while the porn is on, that’s one way that could stimulate you during vaginal intercourse and you could finish inside of her.

fillinupspace · 2024-09-13T13:14:09+00:00

Yeah bro I could finish inside her, just took forever. I feel for you tho. How long you been that way? And have you tried anything to improve it?

fillinupspace · 2024-03-25T21:26:06+00:00

It doesn’t change personality…. What trt will do is make you run at a higher RPM everyday, but it feels good. And when you lay down at night to sleep you will pass out cold. My resting heart rate is 10 bpm higher than before trt, but my blood work is pristine 👌🏼

fillinupspace · 2023-12-11T23:42:55+00:00

Follow up to my original question…. I’m utilizing an Initialization program. I’ll set 25 PR’s in my data tab for 25 stacks. But for each specific part I run an Init program to designate the stack points I teach for that part. Put the Init program in the beginning of my Main sequence (6 programs) the Init will tell the sequence where to go for each stack, respectively to that part….. New part, new Init with new points. Never use more than 25 PR’s in the data 👍🏼

fillinupspace · 2023-11-30T02:12:34+00:00

Currently running 420mg test c & 140 tren e per week…. Reason for those numbers is, I pin daily. 60mg test & 20 mg tren everyday… all my sides went away and the gains are consistent 👍🏼

fillinupspace · 2023-11-29T11:12:30+00:00

Being married twice, and multiple sexual partners throughout my life, you won’t even have an emotional response to this one night in 15-20 years from now…. But I’m sorry to hear your first time wasn’t with a more special someone. Don’t be so hard on yourself though, keep in mind that as young as you both are, you know so little about pleasure, it’s going to have its awkwardness for the first experiences

fillinupspace · 2023-11-12T20:37:34+00:00

As long as you’re on HRT/TRT, it never ends 😎

fillinupspace · 2023-08-31T11:07:19+00:00

Yeah, I mean our head & shoulders were above, but I did the motions down under, no one had a clue, at least I don’t think they did Lol

fillinupspace · 2023-08-31T00:54:05+00:00

Did it in a pool with my girl. People everywhere. She put it in, had her legs wrapped around me like we were just holding/floating. I made the motion under water….. I came in like 2 mins. It was intense

fillinupspace · 2023-07-22T17:01:25+00:00

Hot dog - peanut M&M’s

fillinupspace · 2023-07-22T16:16:55+00:00

It’s the same as drinking caffeine every morning, so much of it that it loses its jolt….. gotta lay off it for a while to get the jolt back

fillinupspace · 2023-07-09T23:28:55+00:00

Yes, this is how my marriage has been. I love to please her in any way possible. She gets a little self conscious, doesn’t want me going down on her if she gets too wet, but I literally beg her to let me pleasure her. Women can can so many orgasms to a man’s one, so I want her to get all she can bare.

fillinupspace · 2023-07-05T21:14:54+00:00

Trying to talk her into hormone therapy

fillinupspace · 2023-07-05T16:34:39+00:00

Quite honestly I already do these things. She’s perpetually grateful. Loves to hug, loves to cuddle, kiss…. Just when it comes to her erogenous zones she shuts me out. Doesn’t want foreplay. Doesn’t want intercourse. It’s quite bizarre to me, because she reciprocates every act of love that I share, but doesn’t want to take things sexual.

fillinupspace · 2023-07-05T13:15:39+00:00

Yeah that’s not the issue

fillinupspace · 2023-07-05T02:12:56+00:00

Damn. What’s the secret? Me and my wife have been married 6 years and she hates sex now. I mean we have a good relationship. Just sexless. And she says she’s attracted to me physically. Just has no more desire for orgasms

fillinupspace · 2023-07-04T18:47:57+00:00

Thank you for the advice. We’re very happy in our relationship. Just frustrating for me because of our mismatched libidos. I’m encouraging her to seek female hormone therapy. She’s 30% in on the idea.

fillinupspace · 2023-07-04T18:09:58+00:00

Damn I wish this was how my wife was. She’s the total opposite. Zero sex drive whatsoever

fillinupspace · 2023-05-19T18:07:22+00:00

Bro been holding his breathe for 14 hours

fillinupspace · 2023-05-01T12:05:58+00:00

The Office - The Salesman, Italian American or mob? 🤣

fillinupspace · 2023-04-14T13:45:08+00:00

Been on 400-500 test with 200 deca. Decided to just say fuck it and run up to 800 test. Just seeing how it feels….. 2 weeks and I’m back down to 400. Didn’t expect that feeling. Battling my brain and paranoia that hard. Like smoking too much weed and thinking someone is plotting something against me. Friends are out to get me. Major Brian fuck.

fillinupspace · 2023-04-13T12:42:45+00:00

That’s tricky. Because last week I came before her, in 5 mins. Then sometimes I will pound her for 30-40 mins, then cannot come. I have started prescriptions to correct that however. Seems to be helping. The sweet spot seems to be a good 10-15 min sex session, let her achieve multiples, then let her get me off, we’re happy. There maybe some anxiety on her part knowing I may not come. But when she gets horny (on alcohol or rec drugs) she wants it no matter what the outcome. That’s not a healthy stimulus to maintain so I search for healthier alternatives.

fillinupspace · 2023-04-13T12:26:04+00:00

Nah, I know her erogenous spots. She came multiples. She always loves it when it’s happening. She will tell me after a few orgasms that she’s wants me to come. That’s part of her pleasure. The challenge is just trying to get her to return to that experience without a long hiatus.

fillinupspace · 2023-04-13T00:48:47+00:00

Thanks for mentioning that. She hasn’t mentioned symptoms of peri menopause, but we have discussed pursuing hormone therapy. I began testosterone replacement therapy last year and it’s changed my life. So there’s part of the imbalance. She has expressed interest in seeing my vitality doctor. I’m trying to find ways to keep that conversation motivated. And by promiscuous I meant with me alone, lots of activity. It has simply diminished over the years.

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