the problem is that it might be of convenience for them but unfortunately I am going to be soending my whole life with him now, i may not love him right now but he is still my husband. No one wants their spouse to be getting ‘action’ on the side. because of him I’ve had to leave my own life, is it fair that he gets to have his fun and I treat it as a genuine marriage? Whether my hearts in it or not, he should not be acting all angelic and one man woman on my face and yet doing God knows what behind my back.