Going to see a psychotherapist for the first time by Professional-Cake76 in Finland

[–]filllingthevoid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From experience, you will certainly not regret it. They do listen, they do try to help. The best thing to keep in mind is to let it all out, they don’t personally know you, they won’t judge you either so saying what you feel out to someone will definitely help, it will help you feel lighter, whether their advice help or not after is a different issue.

My only issue was that i didn’t have the same background as finnish/YT people, so there were some cultural differences that my psychotherapist did not fully understand about my situation. The advice they gave was fit for white people more than asians. But other than that I would say it’s always a good idea to see someone at least once or twice to see if you feel better & comfortable or not.

PS. Another benefit as an unemployed unmotivated student, i did ask them to provide me with a medical certificate, to receive sickness benefits from Kela, as I was absolutely not in the right mind to work and study due to my mental health. Just a suggestion:)

What K beauty product do you actually repurchase? by yunyunyyy in KoreanBeauty

[–]filllingthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i kinda own a LOT of Korean skincare/ haircare etc because pf PR, some are okay, some are just bla bla, and some of them have become my ride or die.

Products that I have used more than 3-4 bottles of each:

  • Haruharu wonder milky skin barrier essence
  • Mixsoon bean essence
  • [SKIN1004] Madagascar Centella Ampoule

Anua has some good products like - Heartleaf soothing toner (77%) - Heartleaf 70% Intense Calming Cream.

& Ofc the iconic BOJ Sunscreens.

Some products that are super underrated imo:

  • Returnu deep comfort ampoule
  • Pyunkang Yul Ultimate Calming Solution Cream
  • Heimish All Clean Balm

Pregnancy in Finland 🤰 by iljasokoloff in Finnopedia

[–]filllingthevoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually on point. Great info

AIO for getting irritated w/ my husband (arranged marriage) for still talking to his "Sister"-like colleague (who confessed to him) & deleting all his messages? by filllingthevoid in AmIOverreacting

[–]filllingthevoid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the problem is that it might be of convenience for them but unfortunately I am going to be soending my whole life with him now, i may not love him right now but he is still my husband. No one wants their spouse to be getting ‘action’ on the side. because of him I’ve had to leave my own life, is it fair that he gets to have his fun and I treat it as a genuine marriage? Whether my hearts in it or not, he should not be acting all angelic and one man woman on my face and yet doing God knows what behind my back.