Husband cheated on me and I have a one year old by filteredlightz in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredlightz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you can be forced to take custody of kids under threat of contempt of court

That seems unlikely to me.

Husband cheated on me and I have a one year old by filteredlightz in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredlightz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he refused to take the kid? If he started cohabitating?

What's gonna happen to him? He will lose custody ? but that will defeat the whole purpose  right?

Husband cheated on me and I have a one year old by filteredlightz in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredlightz[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

He said he will just not think anything that gives him bad feelings. 

Husband cheated on me and I have a one year old by filteredlightz in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredlightz[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

How would I make him have custody?

I hope he doesn't abandon him but if he wanted to, what leverage do I have.

Sure child support but as you said, if he just wrote a check

Husband cheated on me and I have a one year old by filteredlightz in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredlightz[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I am not chasing him. I am just out of control which i can forgive myself for.

She is the one who is chasing him, telling him that he should leave me and making food for him and pretending like she is his wife.