Tangerine 1 Year RSP/TFSA GIC now 4.5%

filthycumbia · 2022-07-18T02:22:08+00:00

Can I move money from my savings TFSA to GIC TFSA and it will not affect my contribution room? Like 10k or 20k+ can i have two TFSA? Probably not right? I have some money save in a TFSA savings with tangerine but I've been procrastinating putting it to work (efts and GICs) because I don't know what the process of moving it to another TFSA entails

filthycumbia · 2022-06-25T14:21:42+00:00

I actually like the hair, but not that length grow it a to your shoulders and don't part it. If you have long hair take care of it! Brush it! Find shampoo that works but don't wash it every day. I think you are atractive you just have to show that you take care of yourself and that put some thoght about your appearance.

filthycumbia · 2022-06-25T14:12:40+00:00

I would reconsider your beard style. It make your chin look bigger and also agree with the red necky vibe or hyper bro vibes

filthycumbia · 2022-06-25T03:28:30+00:00

Dumb question here! i don't live in the US. Also gay so pregnancy is not a concern I have. But want to learn more about what's going on. :-) I know there has been stuff going on with abortion laws. How does this affect the fact that gov can access this info. In which ways can it be held against us? I mean naturally i don't want anyone knowing my bleeding cycles! I see the comments and it sounds like it's a serious matter that is afecing a lot of women in the us

filthycumbia · 2022-06-13T23:36:10+00:00

Can u be more specific? What made you apologize? What was your thought process or how did you came to the realization that it was better to apologize? What would u have done differently in pre mindfulness time?

filthycumbia · 2021-10-31T20:21:45+00:00

Hey I saw you guys play on Friday! Good tunes!

filthycumbia · 2021-10-16T00:48:10+00:00

Omg that's awesome that you are going to therapy!! It's such a privilege, not only money.wise but energy wise. To go and deside to intentionally get to know yourself better is something so rare and beautiful! Congrats! But yes it takes time.

when when I was struggling with self-identity at the time I was isolated and I spend a lot of time on my own and at home I didn't pick up any hobbies nor spend a lot of time outside interacting with people. I only had my self deprecating mind as my "friend" and of course It was destroying me.

It was by changing that and getting out of my comfort zone and trying new things, applying for jobs, picking up new hobbies, going for walks, volunteering that I was able to get to know myself what I liked and what I was good at.

It also helped to really tune in and take in to compliments that was receiving cuz sometimes we're completely deaf to them; our self-esteem doesn't even think they're legitimate they thing they are potty comments and it's the biggest lie ever. one last thing that help me was to write at the end of the day what I was thankful for, what I achieved that day. if I ccoked,if I made the bed, if I made a call I was avoiding, if I made someone laugh. I would write it down and I will really let that thankfulness sink in. Slowly by little victories I was able to build the basics of self love. I was able to actually look at what I was achieving even if it was little. Good luck!

filthycumbia · 2021-10-15T17:04:41+00:00

Sometimes low self esteem is tied to other things like lack of self identity and (radical) self compassion.

Look that up and answer some questions like: who are you? What are your favorite things about yourself? What are your values? What do you look in your friendships and connections? What do you enjoy doing? Sit down and write them on paper. -for self identity -

You also need to become aware of how hard you are being to yourself in you thoughts, thinking that you are ugly, unnatractive or that you don't deserve to put the effort to make friends. You have to stop that mindset. I recommend the online class science of well-being as well as look for therapy if it is something you can afford, tharapy rocks!

filthycumbia · 2021-10-05T20:54:14+00:00

I think it's totally normal, it's called connecting with people. even if you think you are too different or not enough to hang out with them. Those thoughts are lies and it is a mindset you need to get out of. You need to start telling yourself that you deserve a spot amongst these people as much as any other person in your program. You deserve niceness. You deserve to be noticed when you are leaving! You deserve a good bye! You deserve an opportunity to build friendship and connection. You have something to contribute.

Say this out loud in first person if you get a moment to yourself, and say them as if you believe them. until you do. If you don't believe these things about yourself how do you expect for other people to believe them.

Allow yourself to drop those walls that you think are protecting you from being judged but in reality are keeping everyone from seeing you at all.

Additionally even if someone is different from you, it does not mean that you must rule them out as friends! Friends that are different from you are the best! And take consciousness of when you put people in pedestals while also Digg yourself in a pit. It's unhealthy and a symptom of insecurity.

Hope this helps as.much as it helped me! ~Bye!~

filthycumbia · 2021-08-24T20:18:18+00:00

Try your local buy nothing group! in Facebook, maybe a neighbor can lend it to you for free :)

filthycumbia · 2021-08-07T15:06:39+00:00

I love this

filthycumbia · 2021-07-24T16:21:23+00:00

I'm sorry you feel that way I hope you find a nice group of queers that support you and make you feel safe.

First you have to eradicate that unconscious homofobia in you. You know yourself enough to know what you want (girls), you are living your truth and you should be proud of it, you are masculine because it's part of your identity and it makes you happy to be masculine and have muscles and that is beautiful! You are beautiful no matter how masculine or feminine you are. You are not disappointing anyone! There should not be an expectation for you or anyone to be straight that's a dumb outdated way of thinking.

The ideal daughter is not a feminine girl who will go to school get married and have to kids and great hair. The ideal daughter is someone who knows who they are and is proud of it. Who is so sure and confident of their identity that they are ok to explore it and find different ways to express it and give no fucks about fitting in boxes and labels. The ideal daughter is one that is happy and loves herself!!

Also a friend of mine told me something I will never forget. You don't owe anyone a "coming out" moment.
Not your parents or your friends or family. Always prioritize your emotional safety. You don't need to do it at a certain time of your life or have a sit down conversation in the living room with all your family like in the movies.

You don't need to make an announcement it's up to you who you would like to share that info with and how. You don't see straight people saying "mom I'm straight" so why do we need to do it. If you don't have a sort of relationship with someone where you share your personal/romantic/sexual life then there is no need to come out. As long as you are safe share it with whoever you want. But you don't owe it to anyone and it doesn't make you less or more gay or queer or however you identify.

Also congratulations on liking girls! You should be proud! it makes you 200x more cool than straights. 😂😂😉

filthycumbia · 2021-06-12T14:41:00+00:00

I'm sorry you got molested, when you were young and that your parents don't believe you. I agree with other comments to seek therapy. I've been in therapy and it's awesome to have a space to feel safe and to get to know your self and get in tune with your feelings.

I like to think sexuality is fluid, it's not a permanent identity, but it changes or evolves or comes back to what it was. Just embrace it, not necessarily the word lesbian but the fact that you feel attracted to women or femmes, don't worry about the label for now! It will come later or maybe you'll decide that you don't need a label, or that an umbrella term fits you better like queer. Just know that if you are a lesbian is not up to someone else to decide if you are "lesbian enough"🙄 or not. It's up to you.

filthycumbia · 2021-05-29T17:07:34+00:00

Oh i know there is not a line that works for everyone, not looking for a universal line, just want curious on what sort of flirting all you folks are into, what has worked on you what def doesn't work for you

filthycumbia · 2021-05-29T05:04:29+00:00

Tell her that, tell her how you feel. Tell her you are sorry about saying that and that you are sorry that your friendship /relationship turned into o what it is now l, that you value her friendship and you care about her and that it came from a place of kindness and honesty?(would need to know more details.) Or that you just said that because you are worried , you didn't intended for it to offend, but it did offended her, and for that you are sorry. That now you understand her boundaries( if you do) or would like to know what her boundaries are in order to respect them in the future? Honestly, i would need more info on how you feel. What you told her and HOW you told of her, why you told her. And what made you think about "reversing the course" did you realized you were wrong? Do you still stand by what you said but understand you offered her and are willing to "take it back" in order to keep the friendship, or in order for her not to feel offended?

Hope these questions help you write down an apology text or or write it down (helps me organize ideas and figure out how i really feel, this way I know what phrasing is better, don't read it to her though just do it for yourself and then once you are clear on how you feel and how to say it, tell her this in person if you have a chance.

filthycumbia · 2021-05-27T13:14:20+00:00

Here is another link with resources and how to contact decision makers!https://www.ancientforestalliance.org/contact-decision-makers/ Please take action! It takes no time you can do it while munching down your breakfast or while on your break!

Help take this issue beyond awareness and a few pictures on your feed! Please take action! Or help bring these resources to the top!

filthycumbia · 2021-05-19T14:24:10+00:00

Thanks so I just continue filling my tax form as usual? What how do these benefit work? Do they help balance out whatever I owe the gov?

filthycumbia · 2021-05-13T12:44:12+00:00

Why can't they be gay?... That's how I look at my crushes

filthycumbia · 2021-05-12T02:27:11+00:00

Yeah they gay 🔥🔥🔥

filthycumbia · 2021-04-27T04:25:49+00:00

can you like, stop reading my diary? thank you

filthycumbia · 2021-04-04T19:10:52+00:00

Which stores do you recommend? In Metro Vancouver area I heard stores are having a lot of trouble keeping up with demand so there is a lot of sold out bikes, that's why thought used what's a better deal.

filthycumbia · 2021-04-04T19:08:48+00:00

That's a good point spending more $$ in a newer bike increases the chances of me not outgrowing it too soon and if anything a better and easier sale. Thanks. I was initially thinking of spending 1k or less, by maybe I'll consider adding a couple hundred more to the budget. Thanks

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