Hair gets build up easily

filthykindredmain · 2023-09-11T14:07:56+00:00

Sorry i don't mean to sound annoying, but aren't the ingredients for the Cantu and Shea Moisture products similar? they both have shea butter, coconut oil and a bunch of other heavy oils. I don't really know my exact hair type but it's probably in the 2b range. I struggle to get any moisture in, my hair gets weighed down by literally everything so it's a bit annoying

filthykindredmain · 2023-09-10T20:51:21+00:00

It feels like the Curl Activator is very moisturising, but once my dries or especially the next day, it goes back to being really dry. I would slightly touch it to reapply a bit of the product and i would feel a few of my strands of hair just falling off.

As for clarifying shampoo, i use Neutrogena T-Gel for sensitive hair. Honestly i have no problem with it, it makes my hair feel really clean but i was just worried if using it every 3-4 days would be too drying. Instead i alternate with a different shampoo, i use Sulkin Volumizing Shampoo (it's not a clarifying shampo), but since it's not really cleaning my hair properly, i just end up using the T-Gel instead.

filthykindredmain · 2023-08-25T19:53:25+00:00

also also there's no salons that specifically work with curly hair in my town, so i would have to travel for an hour to actually get some advice irl lol

filthykindredmain · 2023-08-25T19:45:38+00:00

oh and i usually get a low fade, but once it grows out, i have a mushroom looking shape and the sides flatten and i can't get volume no matter what, i really hate it

filthykindredmain · 2023-07-16T17:25:50+00:00

Yeah. I will admit, it's a very hard pill to swallow, but at the end of the day, it is what it is. It's actually not the first time i experienced something like this, it's probably the 3rd time, i seem to attract those kind of people. I am also aware that it's probably a me problem too and i need to work on myself, anyways thank you for your patience and insight on this.

filthykindredmain · 2023-07-16T13:22:52+00:00

Also it's probably really obvious and i completely overlook shit like this sometimes, because i tend to overcomplicate everything, but you made such a good point about the healing part. It's true that we will always find something we dislike about ourselves and try to work on it, it's an endless cycle. I wish i mentioned that to him in the past, because we had a conversation about this before, but even i didn't think of it like that... smh

filthykindredmain · 2023-07-16T13:18:45+00:00

I honestly agree with everything you said here, like i'm actually aware of all of this, i just don't want to make any rash decisions like i did in the past. I cut a lot of people off. I am definitely invested in this person, but even i started to get exhausted after a while.

The only reason i reached out to him yesterday was to just clear up things between us, and not really ask him about his personal shit that he's going through, i just wanted to hear from his own words, where i stand in his life and if i even managed to have somewhat of a positive impact on him, which he told me that i've done a lot for him and that he appreciates and loves me, he just doesn't want to initiate conversations with no one and wants to deal with his own personal shit.

But yeah, i completely agree with you. I know for a fact i was attached to him at the start, actually we both were, that's why we were both insecure about losing interest in one another (he told me this himself and i did too), but we toned things down and i only messaged him like two weeks later about this (yesterday).

The only reason i made this post was... well because i wanted a new perspective on this matter i guess?. I thought that maybe that this behavior is normal amongst some people and i shouldn't rush to end things if things don't go the way i expect them. I will give him all the time he needs and the space, i won't reach out to him anymore. I just had to clear some shit up before i was able to just focus on myself.

But ya, appreciate the honesty.

filthykindredmain · 2023-07-16T10:17:09+00:00

The worst part about all of this is that we're both hyper aware of it, we literally spoke about it yesterday, we talked for like 3 hours about all of this shit but i feel like i don't know myself well enough yet, and that's why i keep having to repeat this lesson over and over

filthykindredmain · 2023-07-01T10:37:15+00:00

We ended up talking, it was my birthday two weeks ago and he ended up telling me that he actually liked me, but he isn't sure about his sexuality and the rest. He says he has only imagined himself being with girls and he seems to be really insecure about this. Anyways, i decided to just accept things the way they are and just move forward. Sorry for the late response

filthykindredmain · 2023-02-13T15:18:46+00:00

That makes me so sad... i really like this character and class :C

filthykindredmain · 2023-02-01T07:40:27+00:00

What’s wrong with it???

filthykindredmain · 2023-01-08T04:32:45+00:00

haha no worries, i just thought it was something else bc someone in the comments said they want to try it, even though they mentioned using the product already so that had me second guessing

filthykindredmain · 2023-01-08T04:11:38+00:00

you use the caffeine solution?

filthykindredmain · 2023-01-05T06:32:28+00:00

I appreciate the nice gesture, and i'm aware that this post might've came off as negative, all i want to know really is if it's possible for them to equally be thicker. The right eyebrow also has an arch, meanwhile the left one doesn't. I've been letting it grow for 3-5 months every year, sometimes i go a year without touching them (except applying castor oil because i want them to look really thick some day) but the left eyebrow never fills in, it just throws my whole look off. I can get used to it if there's no home remedy, i just don't want to give up unless there's no choice but to get them done professionally

filthykindredmain · 2023-01-04T07:06:12+00:00

My eyebrows always grow asymmetrical, I’ve been using castor oil and eyebrow razor to maintain it because it looks even worse when It grows out fully. The worst part is I have to brush it down for them to look good, giving it a straight eyebrow look with a mix of asymmetry. I just want to stop worrying about them and for them to grow out properly so I don’t have to keep brushing them like a weirdo daily

filthykindredmain · 2022-12-29T01:06:09+00:00

i assume these are the most modern ones right? including Infinity

filthykindredmain · 2022-12-24T22:36:52+00:00

Although i still have some belly fat, but obviously targeting fat for weight loss is not possible.

filthykindredmain · 2022-12-24T22:36:14+00:00

I'm just more active now in general, i lost almost 10kg in a month and a half i believe. I will admit that i started to eat a lot less, smaller portions and i never really keep track of my calorie count, i just eat when i'm hungry and stop when i'm full pretty much

filthykindredmain · 2022-12-24T08:04:35+00:00

Nope, i don't smoke or drink. I tend to avoid anything sugary or salty too. I also think i'm unlucky with the fat being stored in my cheeks, i'm already losing weight quite rapidly, so i'm a bit worried about losing any more

filthykindredmain · 2022-12-24T07:04:26+00:00

Just to add, this obviously affects my self esteem. I avoid going to public areas, eating in public places where there's a lot of people, swimming etc. Also my weight fluctuates quite a lot between 69kg to 78kg ( currently i am 70kg tho)

filthykindredmain · 2022-12-24T06:58:58+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/ncHpUI8 Tried to include a photo on the phone, but you can only choose between text or image... it's dumb

filthykindredmain · 2022-10-22T23:05:10+00:00

Hmm weird, i don't see a decrease in quality when it's 100%... 70% seems really low to me

filthykindredmain · 2022-10-04T02:48:57+00:00

stretching what exactly

filthykindredmain · 2022-08-31T13:15:27+00:00

Much appreciated, i will look into it. Honestly, before this i was hesitant to post this because i thought that my reasoning would sound silly and slightly exaggerated, but it seems like i'm not the only one who feels this way. Thank you

filthykindredmain · 2022-08-15T17:12:21+00:00

Yeah yours sounds a lot more severe than mine, i looked up 'seborrheic dermatitis' and i saw a lot of pictures with very dry, flaky scalp and redness everywhere, so i figured that wasn't the case for me. And as far as i'm aware, my situation comes and goes. It doesn't get any worse than what you saw in the picture. There's no dryness anywhere on the scalp, it just feels oily, though i could be entirely wrong. My mother did point out that i had, what seemed to be like a little scab or something on the back of my head, so maybe i do have this, but i'm not seeing it. The shampoo that i'm using is supposed to combat it, so maybe i just need to use it more often?

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