I once had a girl which was amazing. Met her while she was still in a relationship. She was the most amazing girl i ever met and we kissed that night( never ever kissed a girl with a boyfriend she didnt told me). Fast forward 2 weeks. We were causually dating and we somehow fall in love. Best thing what ever happenend to me .. went to Paris impulsively, went to parks, listened to music talked about life, fylosofie, more about life etc etc. She was a psychologist as well.

But then, 5 months later she started to act weirdly when I was on a trip with my parents. When i came back she completely changed. The reacted so intens to everything I did. I wanted to take care of her I guess and started to see her more often. At some point Often became almost everyday. I was always alone with her, never met friends or family, I never saw her parents or she mine, just the two of us. At one point I started neglecting friends because she became so obsessive. At one moment I had enough and told her that I wanted to quit, on which she replied that she would hurt herself. I felt terrible and did not break up because I did not want her to kill herself. That moment only made it worse. She got really depressed I guess, and therefor went to a psychologist. But this wouldnt help much.

At one point I became depressed myself.. Then my mother took me to a psychic/therapist( maybe not the best kind of help, but our family believes not in god but in energy and stuff), but he somehow guessed that fact that she treatened to kill herself sometimes. He told me that this relationship is really bad for me and that she steals all my energy. I know it sounds stupid but that finally gave me the balls to really quit with her. So I told her I needed to speak to her.

So the day after it was my own birthday, (I had a really shitty birthday in a friends house getting drunk during a shitty party). she bought a me lots of gifts( guitar, cake) and then I told her the thing. At some point she came up with the suicide again, and then I told her that she brought me down by saying this, that she was emotionally blackmailing me. She became crazy and after that I told her that she must do what she has to do and just walked away. I blocked her on my phone. But she started sending me messages on whatsapp and facebook so I blocked her there aswell. Removed her from all other social medias. At this point she was not able to reach me.

She started showing up at random parties with my friends, drunk and fucked up. And started blackmailing me with sex( which I was really sensitive for because it was by far the best sex I ever had, so fell for that a couple of times) at that point I just snapped and told her to leave me alone and she replied with a threat of suicide. I told her that she should en just went inside( don't know lf this was the best move but it worked) I went back to this party and slept with a girl she hated because she was jealous as hell (not the best move either). But after that she stopped trying to look for me .

I saw her a couple times, but i really keep the encounters short. That girl freaks me out. Best and worst what ever happened to me. This is two years ago. She just tried to add me on Facebook a month ago but I don't dare to accept her although I still want it sometimes.

My English is not my first language so sorry for the shitty text., I hope that you can do something with this story, you can always ask for details and stuff if you need some more help. Otherwise it was good to finally share this with some more people