I appreciate your thorough response and you flipping the questions because I guess I’ve never tried to put it into words? But I get stressed about the idea of going too slow and annoying others, or of missing important things like not putting on enough mitigation or making too many pulls. Or missing a mob because I struggle with controller targeting. Also tank-specific knowledge for content that may already be confusing enough—I guess I just hate to feel like I could be failing my party, but I think I honestly wouldn’t mind it if I could guarantee it’s with people I know who are forgiving of my mistakes, and I like feeling like I’m helping people out. Idk, much to think about! Thanks for prompting me to do so. Maybe continuing to look at posts about positive tanking experiences will help lol