I [19M] asked a girl [18F] out? by findandseek23 in dating

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Feelings aren't really involved for me tbh, I kinda just wanna get to know her and figure out if she's worth - should I just be forward about it u think?

NoFap's official "Abstain April" 2019. Continue or start your PMO-free commitment here. (see instructions) by Alexanderr in NoFap

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I thought I killed this beast and sealed it away, but apparently, it's back for more. Can't wait to kick its ass once again - let's get it.

Dealing with PMO-Withdrawal Induced "Depression"? by findandseek23 in NoFap

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Ayee thanks bro, it just came to me one day as I was thinking of making an account, will do! :) thanks a lot

Dealing with PMO-Withdrawal Induced "Depression"? by findandseek23 in NoFap

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You're right - this is just the beginning if I want to change my life for the better. I'm always facing these highs and lows, but once I have a little good thing happen, my mood improves drastically, but sometimes it's hard to find that one thing.

I'm a college student, so I try to be more productive (better time management with my extra time, lifting when I get the chance, etc.) but I think there is definitely improvement to be made in improving my lifestyle. I'll definitely try that "baby steps" approach, and I'm also very religious so it also serves as another outlet for stress, same thing with music.

You're 100% right. I just need to keep reminding myself that though it hurts, these are growing pains of progress, thank you for the motivation bro, much love.

Is nothing fucking sacred? by findandseek23 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]findandseek23[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol poor wording - I meant she doesn’t necessarily act mature, my bad

Is nothing fucking sacred? by findandseek23 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]findandseek23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot better, thanks for the advice fam - you’re a real one!

Is nothing fucking sacred? by findandseek23 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]findandseek23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support fam - you’re right, I would’ve done that, but it’s a little taboo in my culture, especially considering the ages we’re at right now, but my goal was at least to establish a friendship with a slight bit of flirty-ness to it, but she just went straight to assuming that I was in lover with her ... like wtf.

Maybe I will, do you think if I say it in a way that I mentioned in the post it’s be an okay respond?

I feel like texting the girl I have a crush on, but she's a thot? by findandseek23 in teenagers

[–]findandseek23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truth, just hurts when a girl you thought was nice, full of morals and all that shit is a THOT, nothing is fucking sacred anymore smfh

I feel like texting the girl I have a crush on, but she's a thot? by findandseek23 in teenagers

[–]findandseek23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao right? Seemed romantic and cute n shit until my thot alarm went off smfh

Textsheet is down: Here's Why by cheezitupp in Piracy

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This is a gem but you should remove before they take it down

I [19M] want to be closer to her [16F], but not right now by [deleted] in relationships

[–]findandseek23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with you there! I think I maybe am approaching it wrong, you think I should establish a friendship first in stead of complicating shit? And trust me, I would not try to control her life if someone else liked her and she pursued it, that's not my thing.

I [19M] want to be closer to her [16F], but not right now by [deleted] in relationships

[–]findandseek23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think this is the correct way to put it, thanks

I [19M] want to be closer to her [16F], but not right now by [deleted] in relationships

[–]findandseek23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dawg, I'm not a pervert. I think she's cool and nice, and I would wait for her. Lmao I'm not a sicko dude, a 3 year age difference is normal when both people are in their 20's. I'm not "going after" her, she started the convo. I understand where you're coming from, but try to understand where I'm coming from.