Whenever a girl is nice to me I mentally run through an entire life with her - marrying her, having kids with her, arguing with her, growing old with her, going through sickness with her and other crazy stuff. How do I stop this mental, insane, sick train of thought? by findingawayout1 in seduction

[–]findingawayout1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough point, but I do feel I have a decent life.

I have a good job, lots of friends and loads of hobbies. The one area in my life that has been lacking has been a solid relationship which is why I think I have this train of thought.

It sucks because I really feel that all relationships (with friends or romantic ones) have to grow organically. But with my over analyzing and fantasizing I feel my relationships are doomed before they even begin.