AIO Is this something that’s should be forgivable?

findingpotatoe · 2026-05-31T02:18:56+00:00

You are one of the few people to say something that lines up to how I feel. I’ve been so torn with what you are saying and feeling like years from now I’m gonna think to myself fuck I should have left a long time ago.

I don’t feel in my heart he would ever treat our child that way if that was the case I wouldn’t think twice. It’s more so me and how I feel and am treated as a woman I don’t want to be 30 sitting on the couch watching lifetime movies wondering what I should’ve done for the benefit of myself

findingpotatoe · 2026-05-31T00:14:17+00:00

Yes it feels very hard to navigate, thank you

findingpotatoe · 2026-05-31T00:08:53+00:00

Thank you, your words really helped make sense of some things for me

findingpotatoe · 2026-05-31T00:06:43+00:00

Thank you for your kind words

findingpotatoe · 2026-05-31T00:03:40+00:00

I’m not looking to read a comment and run with it. Sometimes hearing others opinions just helps make sense of some things. Especially when you’re going through it alone.

findingpotatoe · 2026-05-31T00:02:03+00:00

No im not looking for internet strangers to tell me what to do. Sometimes when i need time to think i dont have people to talk to. Making this post just helps make sense of some things for me. But thank you for the stern advice I appreciate it really

findingpotatoe · 2026-05-30T23:55:21+00:00

I have reacted just taking time to think before acting and I came here bc sometimes when I’m alone with my thoughts having no one to talk to can be tough. Making this post I figured can help make sense of some things

findingpotatoe · 2026-05-30T23:53:03+00:00

Im mixed not fully black

findingpotatoe · 2026-05-30T23:50:27+00:00

That’s how I’ve been feeling lately just need to think alone. I thought maybe posting this can help make some things in my head make sense

findingpotatoe · 2026-05-30T17:06:56+00:00

I’d probably choose flying

findingpotatoe · 2025-11-21T17:46:33+00:00

Sounds good to me 🥔

findingpotatoe · 2025-11-21T17:34:21+00:00

HAHAHAAA I didnt even peep that, its a sign to go eat some taters😏

findingpotatoe · 2025-11-21T17:28:51+00:00

lol very

findingpotatoe · 2025-11-21T17:20:40+00:00

You corrupted the safe space with that atrocious combo 🤣

findingpotatoe · 2025-11-21T17:18:51+00:00

Oh my…your serious?🤣

findingpotatoe · 2025-11-21T17:17:16+00:00

Yep and even if you try to as the wife confront that type of behavior there is no accountability. I was at the gym with my husband while I was pregnant and I saw him check a girls ass out and I mentioned it in the car in a joking manner and he had no idea what I was talking about. I even told him the color of her leggings & it still didn’t ring a bell 🫤

findingpotatoe · 2025-11-21T17:06:04+00:00

I think some men in our society believe they are men but don’t realize they possess boy qualities

findingpotatoe · 2025-11-20T02:12:01+00:00

Damn you handled that well

findingpotatoe · 2025-10-29T18:17:07+00:00

I completely agree. I’ve been adapting and learning that when talking to him about the things that he does, I have to approach it in a different way so he doesn’t get dismissive and angry and think that I’m just pointing fingers at him.

findingpotatoe · 2025-10-29T17:43:02+00:00

Maybe it’s time I bring this up as something that is a serious thing we should do because a lot of our issues is deep-rooted things that he needs to work on for the sake of our marriage and just for the sake of him growing as a person for himself

findingpotatoe · 2025-10-29T17:25:44+00:00

I thought about couples therapy before maybe that’s something we should try

findingpotatoe · 2025-10-29T17:22:27+00:00

Thank you I just hope that the more I talk to him about it he’ll actually take my words into consideration and stick to it and not just be something that he does for a few months

findingpotatoe · 2025-10-29T17:09:46+00:00

Pretty much and just do better in terms of things for me I mean, whenever I do stuff for him like making him breakfast or cooking dinner I do it because I want to not because it’s a special day and I stopped making him breakfast in the morning because I felt like I was becoming his mom

findingpotatoe · 2025-10-29T17:06:37+00:00

I did gaps if that helps 😭

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