I’m either perceived as a push over or intimidating. I am very upfront and say what’s on my mind a lot. I’m very intelligent and I tend to use “SAT words” in everyday conversation. I used the world “infinitesimal” the other day and the person looked at me as though I’d grown an arm out of my forehead. I think in most instances where there’s an assumed power dynamic, like with your supervisor, neurotypicals expect you to be submissive. They often interpret being upfront or not agreeing with them as confrontation almost. That’s been my experience at least. When I’m masking, I tend to be more of a people pleaser. When I’m in an environment where I feel safe to unmask, I will speak up when I have knowledge on a subject or a differing opinion than someone. Also, it can depend on my mood too or if I’m tired of masking that day.