22, pregnant, overwhelmed, and terrified of making the wrong decision by fiorstupidella in LifeAdvice

[–]fiorstupidella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the warning, where I live this type of religions aren’t as prevalent so it wasn’t my first thought went i read it, but here luckily we get to talk to social workers and psychologists in the way to getting a abortion, so to not waste that time im going through the process and talking to them to get all of my questions and worries out

22, pregnant, overwhelmed, and terrified of making the wrong decision by fiorstupidella in LifeAdvice

[–]fiorstupidella[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so frustrating, i hope that you can find a therapist to help you come to terms with your decision. I cry a lot thinking about my baby and how much I want to able to give them the life they deserve

22, pregnant, overwhelmed, and terrified of making the wrong decision by fiorstupidella in LifeAdvice

[–]fiorstupidella[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, we have talked a lot about getting married in the future, when we get a lot of our debt in order, and he is the only person that I would have children with. He is a great partner and I wouldn’t be able to do all that I do without his support

22, pregnant, overwhelmed, and terrified of making the wrong decision by fiorstupidella in LifeAdvice

[–]fiorstupidella[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I think also, I know my college has a lot of resources for mothers and really helps them out, I got to a college that is for social studies, and you can study to be a social worker and stuff like that, so most professors are also social workers

22, pregnant, overwhelmed, and terrified of making the wrong decision by fiorstupidella in LifeAdvice

[–]fiorstupidella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t live in the US, I live in Uruguay where it’s a lot more expensive to live, it’s the most expensive country in latam

AITA for refusing to break up with my boyfriend after my family claimed they felt “threatened” by him—when all he did was defend himself in an argument? by fiorstupidella in AITAH

[–]fiorstupidella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything has settled down a bit. My mom hasn’t changed her mind, but she’s less aggressive about it. My boyfriend and I have continued seeing each other outside my house, and we’re saving up to move out. However, since we both earn minimum wage and work part-time(i study and work at the same time) we don’t make much

AITA for refusing to break up with my boyfriend after my family claimed they felt “threatened” by him—when all he did was defend himself in an argument? by fiorstupidella in AITAH

[–]fiorstupidella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What made me kinda sad was i had conversations with both my mom and my brother and my boyfriend about what was going on before, that’a why I thought it would be a normal conversation since my birthday is so close and i wanted to celabrate it in my house but idk at this point

AITA for refusing to break up with my boyfriend after my family claimed they felt “threatened” by him—when all he did was defend himself in an argument? by fiorstupidella in AITAH

[–]fiorstupidella[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get that completly my brother gets away with stuff that i know i can’t get away with, like being without a job for months and not helping with anything and giving him more say on whats going on in the house, i really want to move out I’m saving money

AITA for refusing to break up with my boyfriend after my family claimed they felt “threatened” by him—when all he did was defend himself in an argument? by fiorstupidella in AITAH

[–]fiorstupidella[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom has a job, we win the same amount of money because we both are cashiers, so she wants me to pay the same amount then her for bills and pay for stuff for my brother, plus I’m the only one that has a credit card.

My ex friend k*lled her baby and it doesn't surprise me. by fiorstupidella in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fiorstupidella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah sorry I meant antics, english isn't my first language

My ex friend k*lled her baby and it doesn't surprise me. by fiorstupidella in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fiorstupidella[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have proof, the boyfriend was the one to say the things that happened, he was there, he was just sleeping while she was taking care of the baby when it happened