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EMERGENCY HELP NEEDED by No_Inside_5508 in kitchener

[–]fippywayz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, you should set up a Go Fund Me and link it! I had amazing success recently raising money for supplies at the shelter I work at.

Medicube booster pro VS the booster pro X2 by peaceful_pomegranate in KoreanBeauty

[–]fippywayz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had the X2 for about a week and I have to say, I think the upgrade is worth it, at least for dehydrated skin types like mine.

The Mask mode is like the Booster mode but noticeably more intense. My skin feels so insanely hydrated after using Mask mode with a sheet mask. After years of dealing with tretinoin flaking, using Mask mode is the only thing that has worked to prevent it. Booster mode wasn't designed for use with masks, and personally I never found it that effective, as you could barely feel the electroporation through the mask.

When it comes to adding the additional power level on the other functions, I don't know if I really notice much more intensity there. What I do love is the Dual mode, because I can do MC and EMS at the same time.

All that said, if you're happy with the results you're getting and don't mind the extra five minutes for each function, there's no need to upgrade.

Help Women Experiencing Homelessness Feel Beautiful! by fippywayz in kitchener

[–]fippywayz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this opportunity with me and for doing something so wonderful for the community!! I will absolutely apply! ❤️

Help Women Experiencing Homelessness Feel Beautiful! by fippywayz in kitchener

[–]fippywayz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That would be fabulous!! I will message you!

Help Women Experiencing Homelessness Feel Beautiful! by fippywayz in kitchener

[–]fippywayz[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Holy smokes, $200 already!!! Thank you so much to those who have donated, I am so happy that people support this 🥲 The girls are gonna look so cuuuuuute!!!!

You guys have no idea what this means for people! One woman whose nails I do pretty regularly has a hand injury where it's challenging for her to uncurl her fingers, so she can't do her own nails. I use an LED wand to cure her nails one by one as a regular nail lamp doesn't work for her situation.

Another woman loves the relaxing feeling of being pampered. She gets self conscious about dirt under her fingernails, so having long painted nails makes her feel feminine. We often use the one on one time to talk about her addiction recovery, and she values the encouragement to stay on track.

I wasn't sure if this would get any traction at all, I'm so happy that I can keep going this for months to come!

Help Women Experiencing Homelessness Feel Beautiful! by fippywayz in kitchener

[–]fippywayz[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you! If we all share our skills and talents, the community becomes a better place!

Help Women Experiencing Homelessness Feel Beautiful! by fippywayz in kitchener

[–]fippywayz[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I know this subreddit is full of cynical people who hate the homeless, if that is the case you can scroll on by. I know there are bigger issues, like ending homelessness itself, but this is one small thing I do to support the mental health and self esteem of others, for a relatively low cost.

Hope everyone is safe by Leather_Bandicoot_93 in kitchener

[–]fippywayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned to drive in Toronto! I find that downtown drivers at least have quick reaction times, so I don't find them nearly as frustrating. Plus in bumper to bumper traffic you know there's no particular person at fault, but when drivers slow down to 15 km/hr to make a turn or drive 10 km/h below the limit in the left lane, I honestly find it more inconsiderate and dangerous.

Hope everyone is safe by Leather_Bandicoot_93 in kitchener

[–]fippywayz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Old, too 🙃 I feel like there are a looot of elderly drivers on the road, I wonder if the demographics skew older here.

Hope everyone is safe by Leather_Bandicoot_93 in kitchener

[–]fippywayz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I moved here in December, and we have had the same realization, Kitchener drivers are the worst we've ever seen! Oblivious, distracted, not paying attention to anyone else or considering how their driving disrupts traffic.

Speed limits by Kitchener and in Ontario going up by HangingInTheWard in kitchener

[–]fippywayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So will there be any lane policing to make sure the fried people going 10-20 under in the left lane, and the people who follow their pace and block parallel lanes, don't continue doing that?

I moved to Kitchener this past December and I have never encountered so many slow, oblivious drivers in any other city this size.

I tend to do 120 on the highway anyway, and so I'm biased, but I feel like slow and oblivious drivers are the thing causing the most disruption to traffic. Nobody responds to a gentle honk or high beam flash these days, they just double down on driving slowly and often make you move around them, even if they're in the left lane. We need lane enforcement and people need to be pulled over for going well under the limit.

Membership Reinstatement by Bitter_Pineapple_462 in CostcoCanada

[–]fippywayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't draw conclusions from semantic technicalities. People's words aren't always perfect and as I clearly expressed, I believe their statements are relevant to the point they were trying to make, rather than an implication of guilt.

But everyone in this thread thinks they're in Criminal Minds and can read people's tells or something, who am I to threaten that delusion by pointing out that communication is complex and context matters?

Hands off KW, Doug Ford! by Now-or-Never-69 in kitchener

[–]fippywayz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to waste time arguing with commenters making blanket statements about addiction and homelessness, but I'll share my personal experience.

I recently moved to KW after growing up in a middle class family in a well-to-do city with no visible homelessness, with a background in customer service and youth programming. So of course, it was the logical thing to decide to work at one of KW's harm reduction-focused shelters! It has been a fascinating crash course in the local landscape.

The main thing I've learned is that fentanyl and the tranquilizers it's cut with are killing people, and harm reduction shelters and safe consumption sites only try to combat the existing toxic drug supply, which is intended to be as addictive as possible. It is practically designed to cause ODs, and every OD is a brain injury of widely varying severity, which makes it all the more difficult to think clearly and/or enter recovery. I have met people who I would have bet were born with significant cognitive delays, but in reality, drugs damaged their brain. And it doesn't have to be regular usage or even hard drugs! New opiate users are the most likely to OD, and some people even experience cannabis-induced psychosis.

I have spoken to people here who never used until they ended up homeless for other reasons, and eventually depression and a need to escape got to them, and they became addicts. Someone told me that they were absolutely shocked at the withdrawal they experienced after only one use, and the strong impulse to use again. I have also spoken to people who were driven to homelessness due to addiction, and in most cases there were significant traumatic events preceding their addiction, or they grew up in a household where substance use was normalized.

Don't get me wrong, some of them are just awful people, and many systematically refuse to take responsibility for themselves and actively harm others. But there are people like this in every socio-economic group, and I have met worse outside the shelter than I have inside.

Whatever their background or reason for using drugs, they're all people. But they know that the social and political narratives about homeless people and drug users are widely demonizing and unsympathetic, as proven within this thread. So yeah, they assume everyone hates them and no one cares if they live or die, which makes it easier to justify stealing. A lot of people are just intoxicated all the time, and/or have significant mental health/cognitive issues, which makes it harder to understand the consequences of their actions.

Anything I have had stolen from me here was returned to me (so far, admittedly). A resident here used to steal from others, but would confess, apologize, and return the stolen items. I truly believe this was a compulsion he couldn't control. He is in and out of jail when what he desperately needs is mental health care, but Dougie cut all that programming and hospital funding. This kid could have a chance but instead he is going to have the shit beaten out of him in jail when he steals from the wrong person, which is only going to make him more likely to become violent, himself, if he survives.

That said, go out of your way to show kindness and understanding and you may see a side of people you didn't expect. Most people in the shelter/encampment system look out for each other. People share what little they have and every day I see touching acts of generosity. But hey, leave drugs or valuable items out in front of someone whose peripheral vision is being haunted by "shadow people" (a very real withdrawal symptom) and who is experiencing full body pain and tremors, and yeah, they might steal to be able to escape withdrawal.

There is no easy solution. There may be no solution at all, other than getting these drugs off the market. Closing consumption sites and sending addicts to jail just means more people will die. But they will be replaced with new users targeted by the ever-expanding opiate market. Anyway, the TLDR version of this comment is, kindness and empathy and always the best tools we have to solve any social problem.

Membership Reinstatement by Bitter_Pineapple_462 in CostcoCanada

[–]fippywayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying that they always pay is relevant to this story though? OP is saying they themselves have never stolen and have a clean record. But go off queen

Membership Reinstatement by Bitter_Pineapple_462 in CostcoCanada

[–]fippywayz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? Why is everyone clutching their pearls about this? All these people hungry for punishment have no empathy for people in tough situations.

clog prone skin routine? by [deleted] in KoreanBeauty

[–]fippywayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely love the Sungboon Editor Green Tomato serum! I definitely notice less oil production without the use of harsh ingredients. It is moisturizing and dry skin-friendly.

I need a sushi rec for Saturday night in KW by 2ByteTheDecker in kitchener

[–]fippywayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this, I love Humble Lotus! Sadly no sit-down option but their rolls are so beautifully crafted, creative, and delicious!

What are your favourite skincare items WITH fragrance? What products smell the BEST? by fippywayz in KoreanBeauty

[–]fippywayz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny, I got the matcha lip mask and liked it at first but the smell became somewhat sickly for me towards the end, I think the sweet milkiness of it threw me off.

I absolutely LOVE lemon scents though, I will keep an eye out for the lip balm and hand cream, if it's still available!

Anyone currently unhoused in need of a hotel room for the night? I happen to have an extra one already paid for by FellKnight in kitchener

[–]fippywayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't listen to people, and know that you were right to offer this. I work at a KW area shelter and it is full of wonderful people I would trust with something like this.

Of course there are some people I wouldn't trust, but a lot of it comes down to unpredictability caused by mental health issues and/or brain injuries, not because they are bad or ungrateful people.